Asked me 27 year old to move out

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She probably is busy riding the struggle bus.

$70k is downright poor in this area. I know because my sister only makes $68k as a single teacher at age 28 and she really struggles. She does DoorDash and Instacart on the side. She also picks up waitress shifts from time to time. And I'll loan her money on occasion or pay for her to travel or go to events with me.

She makes about $3900 each month. Her rent is $1975. Add in other expenses and there's not a lot leftover for savings or fun.

Yes, in a high COL area, lots of people have roommates. Your sister must value solitude more than savings or fun...

Exactly. A 27 or 28 year old making $70,000 is not terrible. They aren't rich but they shouldn't be starving either.

+1 My nieces were making less than that in a higher col area. They got roommates. They didn't run to mommy and daddy.

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Have you noticed OP hasn’t responded to any posts? I wouldn’t waste my breath until she provides more information.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She probably is busy riding the struggle bus.

$70k is downright poor in this area. I know because my sister only makes $68k as a single teacher at age 28 and she really struggles. She does DoorDash and Instacart on the side. She also picks up waitress shifts from time to time. And I'll loan her money on occasion or pay for her to travel or go to events with me.

She makes about $3900 each month. Her rent is $1975. Add in other expenses and there's not a lot leftover for savings or fun.

Yes, in a high COL area, lots of people have roommates. Your sister must value solitude more than savings or fun...

Exactly. A 27 or 28 year old making $70,000 is not terrible. They aren't rich but they shouldn't be starving either.

+1 My nieces were making less than that in a higher col area. They got roommates. They didn't run to mommy and daddy.

So why can't their parents be their roommates?

My DH lived with his parents until he had saved enough for a down-payment for a house.

They gave him his own share of bills and chores.