Early 50s and I've never been with a man older than 42

Anonymous
I'm 51 and my dating range is 40ish-55ish, but I rarely date the upper end of that scale. I get hit on by even younger dudes but I'd rather stick to fellow GenXers or close to it- the pop culture references are closer. A lot of my friends are in the same boat- the younger guys don't really seem to mind going older. I'm in really good shape and a daily exerciser and find that guys don't always take great care of themselves, and it ages them. Conversely, the guys I know who are in great shape in their 50's say they sometimes have a hard time finding active women to date.
Anonymous
I am 50, and have been single for 7 years. I have met some amazing men 10 years younger then me. They have six packs and are hot.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am 50, and have been single for 7 years. I have met some amazing men 10 years younger then me. They have six packs and are hot.


I think I know why you’re single.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am 50, and have been single for 7 years. I have met some amazing men 10 years younger then me. They have six packs and are hot.


I think I know why you’re single.


NP. Dont be mad that this woman doesn't want you
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am 50, and have been single for 7 years. I have met some amazing men 10 years younger then me. They have six packs and are hot.


In 7 years none of them wifed you up? You're going to die alone!
Anonymous
Older men generally seek out young women instead of women closer to their age. Ex. 60 year olds looking for woman in their 20s-30s. Sometimes they’ll inch up to early 40s.

I’ve noticed younger men (30-40s) are not like that, they will date women that are much older.

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Im 54 - fit and pretty - my guy is 20 years younger.


Yeah, we men are not picky


Actually you are wrong there, he is extremely picky!

Super handsome, tall and sweet too

Dont bother trying to insult back lol!!



It just means you are desperate and clueless. In 50s... Sad.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am 50, and have been single for 7 years. I have met some amazing men 10 years younger then me. They have six packs and are hot.


In 7 years none of them wifed you up? You're going to die alone!


What a weird response. I have already been married. I don’t need to be married again, and I am fine being on my own. I am living my best life right now. Empty nester and having lots of great sex with hot younger men.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Im 54 - fit and pretty - my guy is 20 years younger.


Yeah, we men are not picky


Actually you are wrong there, he is extremely picky!

Super handsome, tall and sweet too

Dont bother trying to insult back lol!!



It just means you are desperate and clueless. In 50s... Sad.


Haha is that the best insult you could come up with? I did say don't bother, sheesh.
As well, your comment makes no sense at all.

Anonymous
I'm mid-40s man and there is very little middle ground in our age group for health & fitness.

People are either dedicated and it shows or extremely overweight.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am 50, and have been single for 7 years. I have met some amazing men 10 years younger then me. They have six packs and are hot.


In 7 years none of them wifed you up? You're going to die alone!


What a weird response. I have already been married. I don’t need to be married again, and I am fine being on my own. I am living my best life right now. Empty nester and having lots of great sex with hot younger men.


It's the exact same response men on dcum get when they suggest they are dating younger.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I would date as young as I could. Men in the dating scene in their 60s might be divorced multiple times.


Agree. Definitely seek out single men in their 20s and early 30s.

By their 50s, most men have bodies that look like, well, 50-year-olds. No way!

And by 50s or 60s, most men are useless in bed; it is definitely better with hot men in their 20s.


Hot men in their 20s aren’t interested in women in their 50s.


Oh yes they are!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am 50, and have been single for 7 years. I have met some amazing men 10 years younger then me. They have six packs and are hot.


In 7 years none of them wifed you up? You're going to die alone!


What a weird response. I have already been married. I don’t need to be married again, and I am fine being on my own. I am living my best life right now. Empty nester and having lots of great sex with hot younger men.


Dont mind him. He's just a desperately lonely incel who hangs out on this board because it's the only way he can get women to interact with him. If anything, feel sorry for him.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/whats-behind-the-rise-lonely-single-men
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would date as young as I could. Men in the dating scene in their 60s might be divorced multiple times.


Agree. Definitely seek out single men in their 20s and early 30s.

By their 50s, most men have bodies that look like, well, 50-year-olds. No way!

And by 50s or 60s, most men are useless in bed; it is definitely better with hot men in their 20s.


Hot men in their 20s aren’t interested in women in their 50s.


Oh yes they are!



So interesting. Age disparities are definitely a thing. A lot of younger women are interested in older men. And a lot of younger men are totally into sex with older women.

Interesting times. Fit 50 somethings are getting it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would date as young as I could. Men in the dating scene in their 60s might be divorced multiple times.


Agree. Definitely seek out single men in their 20s and early 30s.

By their 50s, most men have bodies that look like, well, 50-year-olds. No way!

And by 50s or 60s, most men are useless in bed; it is definitely better with hot men in their 20s.


Hot men in their 20s aren’t interested in women in their 50s.


Oh yes they are!



So interesting. Age disparities are definitely a thing. A lot of younger women are interested in older men. And a lot of younger men are totally into sex with older women.

Interesting times. Fit 50 somethings are getting it.


For sex? No, not a lot of younger women are into older men. For LTR and $$$$$? Sure, some of them are willing to tolerate old peen. But it's mostly for utilitarian reasons
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