Early 50s and I've never been with a man older than 42

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am 59 and have been single for 9 years. I have dated men 5 - 10 years younger. I have yet to meet a man in this age group who is looking for commitment. Most have been burned by divorce and want to date around.


I like dating women 20 years younger than me. Being rich and fit helps.


This thread is not for you. Go bang a young hottie and leave us alone.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Men in their 40s and 50s don’t have hot bodies.

Why on earth would OP want to date a man like that?!? Definitely seek out only men in their early 30s or even 20s.


I live in a warm climate and there are lots of men with good bodies. My boyfriend’s body is hot. He is however still balding. But it’s cute to me.
Anonymous
There are far more men on dating apps than women, I have no doubt any of you could have a man at your door in 11 minutes even if your profile is a gauzy picture from 20 years ago- when guys are horny they’re not picky.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Older men just don't do it for me. I'm 60, and since this is anonymous, I'm good-looking, fit, and appear much younger. Most men my age are just old looking, bald, fat, etc. Plus, women outlive men. I feel I'm justified for dating younger, but often women are made to feel like they should just settle for whatever. Men definitely have it easier as they age in the dating world.
I hear ya. I'm 63 fairly active male and haven't gotten onto OLD. My interests are not going to align with someone near my age. Hiking Billy Goat Tr, Old Rag Mtn, or even the cliffs at Harper's Ferry. I don't need a marathoner but the stuff I do is going to require a pretty fit person at age 60. It is sad the typical suburban person over 55 is in poor physical shape. Anyway not all old men are flabby.
Anonymous
Sadly, I have to agree that most men in their fifties are way past their prime.

Sucks for us older women who do not want to be “cougars.”
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would date as young as I could. Men in the dating scene in their 60s might be divorced multiple times.


Agree. Definitely seek out single men in their 20s and early 30s.

By their 50s, most men have bodies that look like, well, 50-year-olds. No way!

And by 50s or 60s, most men are useless in bed; it is definitely better with hot men in their 20s.


Hot men in their 20s aren’t interested in women in their 50s.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Sadly, I have to agree that most men in their fifties are way past their prime.

Sucks for us older women who do not want to be “cougars.”


No woman in her right mind wants to be with a man in his 50s or 60s. Gross!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:There are far more men on dating apps than women, I have no doubt any of you could have a man at your door in 11 minutes even if your profile is a gauzy picture from 20 years ago- when guys are horny they’re not picky.



+ a million!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:There are far more men on dating apps than women, I have no doubt any of you could have a man at your door in 11 minutes even if your profile is a gauzy picture from 20 years ago- when guys are horny they’re not picky.



Yuck. You want a guy you know is hitting below his weight with you?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:There are far more men on dating apps than women, I have no doubt any of you could have a man at your door in 11 minutes even if your profile is a gauzy picture from 20 years ago- when guys are horny they’re not picky.



It’s why the uglies can have affairs with men that wouldn’t date them if they were single.
Anonymous
I guess as long as you're a woman over 50 who doesn't expect commitment, then go younger. But young men are using you for practice until they find "the one", aren't they?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There are far more men on dating apps than women, I have no doubt any of you could have a man at your door in 11 minutes even if your profile is a gauzy picture from 20 years ago- when guys are horny they’re not picky.



Yuck. You want a guy you know is hitting below his weight with you?


You’re missing the point, guys will swipe right all day and take the easiest outlet. They don’t have to like you, they may never contact you again and a 28 year old handsome man is never taking a 56 year old woman out to the 9:30 club with his friends.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There are far more men on dating apps than women, I have no doubt any of you could have a man at your door in 11 minutes even if your profile is a gauzy picture from 20 years ago- when guys are horny they’re not picky.



Yuck. You want a guy you know is hitting below his weight with you?


You’re missing the point, guys will swipe right all day and take the easiest outlet. They don’t have to like you, they may never contact you again and a 28 year old handsome man is never taking a 56 year old woman out to the 9:30 club with his friends.


Gross. Have some self respect. Who wants to have sex with someone embarrassed to be in public with them?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There are far more men on dating apps than women, I have no doubt any of you could have a man at your door in 11 minutes even if your profile is a gauzy picture from 20 years ago- when guys are horny they’re not picky.



It’s why the uglies can have affairs with men that wouldn’t date them if they were single.


Then they divorce thinking they are all that and in a few months they are on here wondering why they can’t find a date.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Im 54 - fit and pretty - my guy is 20 years younger.


Yeah, we men are not picky


Actually you are wrong there, he is extremely picky!

Super handsome, tall and sweet too

Dont bother trying to insult back lol!!

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