For the ladies: how to make most of 30s?

[Anonymous]

Don’t have kids, you will lose all of yourself. Signed a thirty something with two, I grieve my old self, I feel like I’m 50.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was going to say have a lot of sex with random hot men but then saw you were married and ttc... 😂

[phone]

[Anonymous]

Get Lipo and a tummy tuck bc you won’t be able to get rid of it later.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I agree with enjoy body, skin an hair. I think I was most attractive in my 30's.

As far as advice:

-see a financial planner;
-find exercise you like - not just for weight/appearance, but when you hit 50 your body will thank you;
-your marriage is important, but don't miss the opportunity to foster female friendships;
-if you are somewhat vain (I am) look at things like tretinoin and botox as you move into your later 30's/are done with your pregnancies.

+1000. Live for today and invest in tomorrow. Enjoy it. Family, health, finances, community. These are all things you want to prioritize and you will be grateful down the road.

[Anonymous]

Do a few things now to make the 40s easier:

Sunblock
A hat style you like
An exercise you enjoy
An edit of your friends— make sure you know in your heart the 4-5 friends you want to take into this next stage of life with you and make time for them amidst the baby whirlwind.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ugh all this focus on looks. Thumbs down.

Be present. That’s it.

And, don’t get caught up in the Rat Race or keeping up with the Jones’ or basing how you feel on how you look.

White women fade quickly in that department amirite?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Having kids will negate anything you do so...

This!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ugh all this focus on looks. Thumbs down.

Be present. That’s it.

And, don’t get caught up in the Rat Race or keeping up with the Jones’ or basing how you feel on how you look.

White women fade quickly in that department amirite?

Another jealous one coming in to cut people down to feel good about themselves. Sad. 😁✌️

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ugh all this focus on looks. Thumbs down.

Be present. That’s it.

And, don’t get caught up in the Rat Race or keeping up with the Jones’ or basing how you feel on how you look.

White women fade quickly in that department amirite?

Another jealous one coming in to cut people down to feel good about themselves. Sad. 😁✌️

+1

Hate makes PP UGLY.