I broke up with her. She threatened to go back to her ex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What the hell? You invited the 22 year old stalker to your family’s BBQ? Your ex is right to run as far away from you as she can.

But we’re broken up so how is it wrong?

DP. "Somehow" your ex saw that the stalker girl was at your BBQ? Don't play dumb. You know that everyone posts everything on every social media platform and your stalker girl probably tagged your ex to be sure she spotted the pictures. Claiming that "somehow, golly!" the ex saw this is beyond insulting to everyone's intelligence here. If you truly cannot comprehend that this was absolutely bound to happen if you invited stalker girl, you are either in deep denial or too dim to date. The stalker girl was effectively telling your ex, "I WON!"

Of course, since you and ex are broken up, you can do what you like with stalker and ignore ex's blow-up. Absolutely you can. But you are now going to end up back in bed with stalker girl who thinks she's won won won and will only stalk you again if you break up with her again. But you deserve stalker girl (or someone just like her) because you are a supposed adult who refers to "placeholder" women. Grow up. But to grow up you would need to take a serious break from sex and dating and learn to be an actual person, and I doubt you can keep your pants zipped long enough for that.

[Anonymous]

Everyone keeps saying that you can do what you want since you’re broken up is wrong.

There’s certain things you just don’t do after a breakup out of respect for your past relationship. You two were still in communication, so there was still care and civility there between you two. Since that was the case, you do owe someone you loved respect after the fact. Again, there’s certain things you just don’t do after a breakup.

You don’t have to be together anymore but at least show some decency. It’s not like you had been broken up for months - it had only been a month AND you were contacting her.

What you did was disgusting.

[Anonymous]

She’s probably getting Pretzeled by her ex right now. Good job. You brought this on yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What the hell? You invited the 22 year old stalker to your family’s BBQ? Your ex is right to run as far away from you as she can.

But we’re broken up so how is it wrong?

DP. "Somehow" your ex saw that the stalker girl was at your BBQ? Don't play dumb. You know that everyone posts everything on every social media platform and your stalker girl probably tagged your ex to be sure she spotted the pictures. Claiming that "somehow, golly!" the ex saw this is beyond insulting to everyone's intelligence here. If you truly cannot comprehend that this was absolutely bound to happen if you invited stalker girl, you are either in deep denial or too dim to date. The stalker girl was effectively telling your ex, "I WON!"

Of course, since you and ex are broken up, you can do what you like with stalker and ignore ex's blow-up. Absolutely you can. But you are now going to end up back in bed with stalker girl who thinks she's won won won and will only stalk you again if you break up with her again. But you deserve stalker girl (or someone just like her) because you are a supposed adult who refers to "placeholder" women. Grow up. But to grow up you would need to take a serious break from sex and dating and learn to be an actual person, and I doubt you can keep your pants zipped long enough for that.

I didn’t think anything would happen because she has a boyfriend that she’s happy with. She post about him all the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The two of you are no longer together. What either of you do with another person is no longer either of your business.

Then he shouldn’t have contacted her or invited her to an outing. It’s very much her business.

[Anonymous]

It literally makes no sense to out of the blue invite someone you had blocked, who isnt your friend, who you don't talk to, for a family dinner.

Wth

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It literally makes no sense to out of the blue invite someone you had blocked, who isnt your friend, who you don't talk to, for a family dinner.

Wth

OP is obviously dysfunctional.

[Anonymous]

I’m confused. He broke up with his ex and is single, so doesn’t that mean he can do whatever he wants?

How is hanging out with an old flame wrong?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Super weird post. If I had more interest, I’d make redline edits and send back for revisions.

You’re my favorite person on this forum right now.

[Anonymous]

You sound 14, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m confused. He broke up with his ex and is single, so doesn’t that mean he can do whatever he wants?

How is hanging out with an old flame wrong?

Seriously?

[Anonymous]

This is the stupidest fake post/troll post I’ve ever read. And that is saying a lot.
Where do y’all come up with this nonsense?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m confused. He broke up with his ex and is single, so doesn’t that mean he can do whatever he wants?

How is hanging out with an old flame wrong?

Seriously?

Yes, seriously. How was he wrong if they were broken up?

[Anonymous]

I think you’re fake but honestly both women sound absolutely nuts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think you’re fake but honestly both women sound absolutely nuts.

Ah yes, let’s label the women crazy but not the manipulative jerk.

The ex sounds like a normal person who who is reacting to someone who harassed her and was cruel to her.

OP and that other woman are nuts.