Twins

[Anonymous]

I'm an adult identical twin girl. Growing up we were very close (our own language, same dreams, could be in the same room and know each others thoughts without even looking at each other) then through our early twenties we disconnected and tried to find our own identities. We are early 50s now and have been very close forever although we alsh have different personalities. I think the key for identical twins is to embrace their uniqueness, let them be as close as they want but also recognize at some point they are going to want to figure themselves out individually.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm an adult identical twin girl. Growing up we were very close (our own language, same dreams, could be in the same room and know each others thoughts without even looking at each other) then through our early twenties we disconnected and tried to find our own identities. We are early 50s now and have been very close forever although we alsh have different personalities. I think the key for identical twins is to embrace their uniqueness, let them be as close as they want but also recognize at some point they are going to want to figure themselves out individually.

This^. I don't get why parents want their twins to live conjoined lives. They are siblings, let them be individuals. They should have stronger bond with their significant other not with their sister or brother.