Be honest: did you think about future dating opportunities for your child when you decided to send

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Anonymous wrote:This should win some sort of award for the dumbest dcum post of all time

This came up in the college forum, and is probably a spinoff of that.

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I didn't think about dating for my kids, but for an additional anecdote - my neighbors are a bunch of young adults (they share the house as renters) and several of them went to Sidwell together and one went to NCS. We love them. I was worried they were going to be rowdy neighbors, but instead they are respectful and do things like bake the kids cookies and always say hello. Two of them are dating each other - so I guess it could happen.

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Hahahaha. My sibling went to an Ivy. They dated a high school dropout who worked at a fast food place while sib was studying pre-Med.

Kids date who kids want. This was 98% rebellion against the WASPY elite culture at the Ivy school.

Worked out 10 years later and their spouse is a Stanford grad but they took the loooong way there!

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Anonymous wrote:Hahahaha. My sibling went to an Ivy. They dated a high school dropout who worked at a fast food place while sib was studying pre-Med.

Kids date who kids want. This was 98% rebellion against the WASPY elite culture at the Ivy school.

Worked out 10 years later and their spouse is a Stanford grad but they took the loooong way there!

BDE?

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As long as my Sidwell kid dates a BASIS McLean kid, I know they'll both be number one.

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Anonymous wrote:Single sex school and my DDs seem to like boys so… no.

LOL---same

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Admissions gave us an odd look when we asked so waited for shadow day to figure out the scene.

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Nope, but it did cross my mind when we sent our son to a particular top 20 university, where he met his now fiancee. Just the type of girl we could ever hope for as a daughter in law.

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Sending your kid to whatever private school is the best they can access is absolutely about becoming a member of the Masters of the Universe club, so obviously it’s about who they will marry. Must have the right credentials to be considered acceptable to the rich in laws later on!! But of course *succeeding* in these selective elite institutions is in fact important, so at this age it really is about finding just the right school to maximize individual potential. The rest will follow, to be glowingly recapped in the New York Times Vows section at the appropriate time.

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Anonymous wrote:As long as my Sidwell kid dates a BASIS McLean kid, I know they'll both be number one.

So you want them to date up?

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Being honest: no. That thought never crossed my mind as a parent whose kid entered Sidwell in 9th. Not once.

Now he's at a T15 university and once again, his dating prospects didn't cross my mind even once when we were touring schools and deciding where he should apply.

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No, it’s just you.

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WTAF

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We have had families making us offers for betrothal since just after birth. It’s comes with being a billionaire on the social registry with lands and titles.

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Anonymous wrote:As long as my Sidwell kid dates a BASIS McLean kid, I know they'll both be number one.

They could be diligent staff. Take note: I prefer them to do things like a stint at McKinsey so they learn to work and understand the depth and commitment associated with “beck and call.” After they get their appropriate pedigrees and learn to work, I might give them a call! I love the strivers!