Yeah, but OP doesn't seem worried about appreciation or future sales. They seem worried about having a mortgage, so the immediate question is how much monthly payment can you afford, and is that going to be more or less than the costs of a renovation. |
OP here. House is free and clear, never had a mortgage, bought cash and it was 100% a case of fortune favoring the foolish. |
Helpful framing on moving our for a year. Other option is living with family, but that might be just too close. Not retired, 30s, plan on working another 20 years. HHI is $280k, one spouse could go make significantly more, but the quality of life balance would suffer. May decide to do it when the kid is a little older. |
Discussed over improvement, but tbh, not really concerned with that. 10 years of living in a home we love, with family close would be a net win, even $500k all in. House is likely going to be passed down to the kid. We don’t need to sell for a down payment. |
Because we don’t carry a mortgage, if we dropped down to one income, or someone wanted to work on a low paid passion project for a while, that’s possible, someone always an option to SAH. We can “afford” $5000 a month, factoring in private school, expanded childcare costs, savings and maintaining current quality of life….but that does require either a dual income or one person to go back into a lucrative but intense field. |
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Thanks everyone, this is as helpful. Sounds like get an architect, structural engineer, deal with construction for the next year and either move or do things in sequence.
If we wanted to buy what we currently have, we’d be priced out of the area, even with the work needed. And I don’t want to live in a bland new development. When the kid gets older and/or when the grandparents decide to move, we’ll revisit. |
You are inserting a lot of binaries in your decision making. Yes, it's nice grandparents live across the street. But in a major city there are plenty of neighborhoods and exactly how far from your grandparents do you need to go to find decent housing? If we're talking of Philadelphia, it's not a case of having to chose between living across from grandma in South Philadelphia or Overbrook and living way out in Exton (and leaving aside that much of urban Philadelphia is pretty bland in the first place). And how do you know your kid will want the house someday? Expecting to pass down the house is unusual? Is this a family compound situation? |
I cannot stand the use of ‘forever home’. It’s one of the dumbest phrases in regards to buying a home. I guarantee for the vast majority of people that use that term, it is not. |
OP, people on DCUM vastly overpay for home renovation. There’s no reason to pay $75k for a bathroom. |
Crazy to think it takes more than a whole years salary for a software engineer/nurse to pay off a bathroom remodel. |
That's a very high end bathroom remodel or has something problematic. We just got quoted in the DMV for a full gut remodel at 24k and we are moving one wall. |
24k is labor only. I'm not the 75k pp but just did gut reno of a masterbath. Adding all materials and labor, it's coming close to 60k now. We are also in Nova. |
| We literally just remodeled a 6x9 hall bath with medium grade finishes (Kohler) for $22k ($13K labor and $9k materials). Not luxurious but nice. MoCo. |
| Absolutely stay. How is this even a question? Do the renovations slowly, one at a time, from most urgent to least urgent. |
My neighbors just did their large master bath for $18k in Loudoun. |