I developed an unknown food allergy in the US after living abroad for several years as an adult. I came back and immediately started having reactions to food. I was tested for everything and it all came back negative. The allergist said that there are lots of things added to food now that they have yet to create allergy tests for. It's possible to develop an allergy from the increasing use of additives, preservatives, etc. I now eat as clean as reasonably possible and my allergic reactions have steadily trended down. I don't think I used my epipen at all in 2022 and haven't yet in 2023. That could be from a combination of lowering my intake of whatever chemicals trigger my reaction and increasing my tolerance of them. |
- 2 kids
- Clean diet during pregnancy, virtually all organic and included nuts - Fed organic foods until age 5; diet still mostly organic - Few processed foods - No screens (at all) until after age 2 - Pets in the house since birth, which is supposed to be protective. - SAHP who provided lots of outdoor time when they were little, including playing in nature and digging in the dirt. - Minimal antibiotics or other medications - Fed peanuts and nuts once it was recommended (age 3). Both kids have food allergies. One ate nuts and peanuts until age 7, when she had sudden anaphylaxis and almost died. She now has severe anaphylactic allergies to peanuts and tree nuts, as well as suspected celiac (we went gluten free before doing the testing). The other has multiple, less severe food allergies. Tell me, what did we do wrong? How is this the parents' fault? |
I guess anecdotes may not be helpful, but I'll add mine:
--I ate peanuts and tree nuts throughout both of my pregnancies --DC1 was fed peanut butter along with a very varied diet from the time he started solids. He is 8 and has mild seasonal allergies, no food allergies --DC2 was fed peanut butter along with a very varied diet from the time he started solids, although he wasn't as interested in food as DC1. We were shocked to learn that, at age 2, he was suddenly allergic to peanuts along with all tree nuts, sesame seeds, sunflower seeds, and eggs. Interestingly, as a baby, he always refused to let eggs even touch his lips. He also has asthma and eczema (though the eczema all but went away when we started giving him oat milk instead of cow's milk). DH and and I don't have any food allergies. |
Allergies are a dysfunction of the immune system. Related to other allergies, eczema, psoriasis, etc. Travels in families for sure. I doubt you can pin it down to one single thing in parental or prenatal behavior. |
Oh really? I have TWIN DAUGHTERS and one is allergic to peanuts, and one is not. Would you like to tell me what I did during pregnancy or what DH and I did during childhood to cause this? Hmm? They had eaten basically the same foods at every meal and snack for most of their lives up until the point of the allergy being apparent. |
I lean toward the "too clean" way of thinking. None of my relatives still in an Asian country have allergies. I have 4 kids with various allergies like eggs, raw eggs, dairy, red dye #40, and most raw fruits. We live cleaner in the US than they do. They don't live in filth, of course, but they don't wipe a baby's hands before they eat, they allow them to hang out on the floor without blankets down, etc. |
One of my kids has peanut and tree nut allergies. I was shocked. I was born in an Asian country but have lived here since I was 5 months old. My husband grew up on a farm in rural MO and has 2 older brothers, so they weren't exactly the cleanest household. I don't have any allergies, food or environmental. My husband was allergic to peach skin and chicken feathers (inconvenient on a farm!) as a child, but is no longer allergic.
I suspect that my kid's allergies were caused by too many antibiotics for multiple double ear infections as an infant. I think they messed up his gut flora. When I was pregnant with him, I didn't avoid or overconsume peanut and tree nuts. Just ate them normally. Trust me, my son didn't ask for these allergies and doesn't enjoy having them. He has never asked for accommodations at schools or parties or playgrounds. I would take this burden from him in a heartbeat if I could. We're now entering the teen years where the risk of incidents/reactions is high due to their foolish teenage brains and I pray to God that I won't get a call from the hospital. |
There is one theory that the western diet has led to increases gut permeability, meaning the intact proteins from our food pass into our bloodstream and therefore our breastmilk. So, kids are getting large exposures to various proteins via breastmilk that they didn’t get in previous generations. Their body is not ready to handle these exposures yet. It can cause GI issues, colic, or in some cases, this leads to immune overreaction and you get a full blown allergy when the kid tries the solid food later. |
You didn't do anything wrong, and it's not your fault. The highlighted above used to be the recommendation to parents to avoid allergies, especially peanut allergies. It's not anymore. I posted about this upthread. Right around the time my DD was born, the medical community became aware of comparative studies on food allergies indicating that the prevailing wisdom at the time, which was to be very cautious about exposing young kids to known allergens, was probably wrong. And that especially for peanut and tree nut allergies, it is likely better for kids to be exposed young, and for even those kids who experience an allergic reaction to be treated with exposure to peanuts and tree nuts (starting in small controlled doses and building up) rather than in trying to create a peanut free cocoon. But they just figured this out a few years ago! If your kids were born today, your doctor would likely encourage you to expose your kids to nuts between 6mo and a year. My pediatrician actually gave me a hard time when I told her I hadn't given my baby peanuts yet (because I was afraid, because of what I'd previously heard about allergies). And she was right. It's not parents fault. We were given bad advice on the basis of an incorrect assumption made by the medical community. Go talk to a pediatrician about allergies now. They are seeing fewer peanut allergies in kids exposed to peanuts by age 1, and they are seeing success in reducing the severity of, or even eliminating, peanut allergies in young kids via exposure. I think one reason you see higher rates of peanut allergies in UMC and wealthy American kids is that they have very good access to medical care and have parents who are likely to follow the advice of their pediatrician to the t. So when pediatricians said "don't expose your kids to nuts!" everyone followed suit, daycares and preschools banned nuts, and an entire generation of well-off American kids didn't get a chance for their immune system to acclimate to peanuts. It's not about blaming parents, it's about correcting our assumptions. We made some bad assumptions. I'm sorry it impacted your kids. I definitely don't blame you for their allergies! |
New PP here. They are just guessing at this point. Since x didn't work, let's try to opposite. But early exposure is not proven to work either. I know countless allergy families where they tried this approach for the youngest kids. They still got allergies. I also know moms who meticulously made sure they ate absolutely everything regularly while pregnant and breastfeeding to reduce the risk of allergies. Some took probiotics, did everything right. Their kid still got allergies. My daughter was clearly reacting to allergens in my breastmilk as a newborn (itchiness and vomiting), so I didn't even stand a chance. Also you can't just reintroduce a food your child is allergic to. Unless you really want to kill them. You'll have to do it at the allergist office. That's what we did and they failed all their challenges. So what's the point again about early exposure? It doesn't work in practice. And pediatricians know virtually nothing about food allergies. Wait another 5 years and they will come up with another assumption. |
I'm actually convinced about that (leaky gut - allergies connection). I just find it hard to explain by diet alone. Lots of families with allergic kids eat a good diet with few processed foods. In that case you would think the economically disadvantaged families would have a much higher proportion of allergies but it's not the case. Or maybe it's the combination of what you said and breastfeeding? That could explain the prevalence of allergies in wealthier families (who are more likely to breastfeed). |
I think it's really important to note that once anaphylactic allergies are identified the "starting in small controlled doses and building up" needs to happen in carefully supervised medical conditions, and that until the treatment, which takes more than a year in a best case scenario with a kid with 1 allergen and no complications, and no waiting list for the first appointment, the kids lives outside of those medical interventions need to continue to be peanut free. On the other thread, there are a lot of people who seem to taking the fact that OIT exists (which is wonderful) and twisting it around to say that parents who try to protect their kids from exposure are either bad parents because they should have just done the treatment already (even though, the treatment can take years, so young kids can be getting the treatment and also still need to be protected) or that since small exposures are the cure they should let their kid have small exposures on the playground (not how it works). That's a really dangerous way of thinking. |
We don’t know. If parents are to blame, we don’t know what they are doing to cause it. If it is environmental, we don’t know what it is exactly. We do know it is autoimmune. |
I also can't imagine that if formula fed babies developed food allergies as a significantly lower rate, that wouldn't have been discovered by now. I also think that if processed food were a simple mechanism causing this, that we'd see a pattern where lower income families in the same country, or at least in the US, would have higher rates, not lower rates. |