| Yes, I am, too. I suspect that it’s because the generation raised by the some of the parents on the MCPS and College and Universities forums here are entering the profession - kidding not kidding. |
| I don't know that I find them smug, but I do feel like they throw around terminology and expect people to understand. I have a health related background, so I can decipher most of it, but I think it's wild that they would talk to the general public using medical jargon without further explanation. |
Not sure why you use MD in quotes, but you lose cred there. This just isn't happening. The reverse is also true. Patients want meds that are a quick fix. Please see the example above about the Zpacks. It's absolutely true. Parents want antibiotics for ear infections and when they are offered nothing and told it's "viral" patients get mad. |
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Women doctors seem to be the worst in terms of smug and condescending. And I say this as a woman.
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Doctors are plain humans like all of us. Figure out what you want out of a doctor - symptom management, wellness, root cause discovery, integrative lifestyle approach, specific skill set and expertise, conventional versus holistic or both etc… figure it out and then research research research and ask around.
It’s not just personalities but a conventional MD will differ from a DO or an FM. All doctors that have gone through med school. The vast majority of conventional doctors are symptom management focused, which is how our health and insurance system is structured. DO’s and FM’s will be more about root cause discovery. Also these various doctors will be more or less open to incorporating integrative modalities into long term care such as acupuncture, food as medicine etc… Until I got sick sick in my 30s I didn’t take the time to really delve and understand how to get myself quality care. It is combination of research and trial and error. Once you get to know one doctor you really appreciate you will realize their network of practitioners they would refer you too are similar in care and approach so it gets easier to build a network of doctors that are a good fit with you. |
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My mom is a Dr. and she always said she loved everything about her job except working with a lot of the other doctors because so many of them were jerks.
I have had good luck with doctors myself so far. I had one smug dermatologist but my primary care providers and my OBGYNs have been excellent. I think if you don't like your doctor you need to keep looking til you find someone you do like. There are lots of good doctors out there. |
Agree, I wouldn't go to a bike mechanic to fix my car, why in the world would anybody think a PA or NP would be better than a physician for primary care is farcical. |
| I had the worst experience with NPs..never dealt with a PA |
It does mean more attention and less of a rat race. |
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I have many doctors in my family and a few NPs. Be skeptical of all of them, but the good ones do exist. The doctors in my family are beyond arrogant. One NP in my family I would trust with my life. The other NP failed several courses, but was allowed to retake. She's really flaky and I would not trust her to diagnose a common cold.
I had one common and painful medical condition that sent me to urgent care. PA's hunch was right, doctor sent me in the wrong direction. I ended up in ER and ER doctor had no idea what it could be. A cat-scan confirmed PA's hunch. I have dealt with some really poor doctors but because i have them in my family and i know how their egos can get the best of them I am polite, but skeptical. As a result I gently ask questions while stroking fragile ego so as not to poke hornet's nest. I get second opinions and I pick up and move on if needed. I now have a dream team for my kids, my husband and me. There absolutely are top notch doctors who are both brilliant and have a good bedside manner. The point of my long winded post is do your research, get second opinions if needed and move on if needed. There are top notch doctors, NPs and PAs, but sometimes it takes trial and error and waitlists to get them. |
I am an NP. I was a bedside nurse for a long time before I was an NP. I know what I don’t know. I have worked in Primary Care and specialities. In my experience, MDs give antibiotics much quicker than I do, esp in primary care. The time it takes to talk to a patient for symptom management for an upper respiratory infection and explain why he/she doesn’t need an antibiotic takes much longer than getting a Z-pack- which is what patients are used to. Some of that, I think, is just time saving for busy MDs. Most of my NP colleagues are the same. I don’t think intelligence has anything to do with it. Lots of super smart nurses out there. Education and training are different. |
You are lucky. It happened for me in my mid 20s. |
I've generally had positive experiences and respected the doctors who have treated me. But I've been burned too: One doctor ordered a test that was not recommended for a patient with my characteristics. When I asked, he said he was following standard recommendations. It took multiple emails, with me citing the recommendations of every major medical organization, before he changed his mind. He even referred me to a publication that explicitly contradicted him. This was a minor issue, but it completely destroyed my trust. The wide availability of medical advice has definitely allowed incompetent patients to get bad ideas, but it's also allowed some of us to know when our doctors are wrong. |
As a physician working with both NPs and MDs in general its more the MDs that know what they dont know. |
Interesting. It is not typical for NPs and PAs in general.
This was national data over decades from sites across the country, sampling 1.3 million visits out of about 1.13 billion.
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