Infatuation vs love

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Anonymous wrote:How does one know if it’s infatuation or love that you’re feeling for someone? It’s seems all I do is think about this person. Trying to distract myself but inevitably my thoughts turn to them. What are they doing? Are they thinking about me too? When will I hear from them?

I have the same question - esp since I am not supposed to love this person (it would be majorly frowned upon and everyone would automatically say it's infatuation - but is it? I feel like I do love them. I am more concerned with their well being than hooking up with them - because we 'shouldn't' be doing that).

Their well being? Are they your patient or student or employee

No, just a lot younger than me. Not married.

But you are married and obsessed with your coworker.

No, he's definitely not my coworker. We work in very different industries! He is a very good friend and we have kissed etc.
Why do posters make up scenarios ha ha.

You are a loser.

Ha ha, really and why is that oh wise one?

Too funny.

[Anonymous]

Don't mess up someone's life with your drama.
Get a therapist

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don't mess up someone's life with your drama.
Get a therapist

Don't even discuss it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's infatuation when the person isn't a good person but you're still attracted to them. See: attraction to bad boys who treat girlfriends like crap.

That's why I became a bad boy. We never get dumped. Women consider us a project.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Don't mess up someone's life with your drama.
Get a therapist

Don't even discuss it.

Discuss it with your therapist preferably during a discussion about why you are addicted to drama, dysfunctional relationships and men who aren't available to you for one reason or another

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't mess up someone's life with your drama.
Get a therapist

Don't even discuss it.

Discuss it with your therapist preferably during a discussion about why you are addicted to drama, dysfunctional relationships and men who aren't available to you for one reason or another

Don't have or need a therapist. I'm actually happy, feel good, lots of friends. What drama?
All is well - but you don't want to hear that haha Sorry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't mess up someone's life with your drama.
Get a therapist

Don't even discuss it.

Discuss it with your therapist preferably during a discussion about why you are addicted to drama, dysfunctional relationships and men who aren't available to you for one reason or another

Don't have or need a therapist. I'm actually happy, feel good, lots of friends. What drama?
All is well - but you don't want to hear that haha Sorry.

p.s. yes I get that you were referring to the addiction issues - but that's out of my control. I don't consider it "drama".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't mess up someone's life with your drama.
Get a therapist

Don't even discuss it.

Discuss it with your therapist preferably during a discussion about why you are addicted to drama, dysfunctional relationships and men who aren't available to you for one reason or another

Don't have or need a therapist. I'm actually happy, feel good, lots of friends. What drama?
All is well - but you don't want to hear that haha Sorry.

p.s. yes I get that you were referring to the addiction issues - but that's out of my control. I don't consider it "drama".

I'm glad you have friends.
The drama of your affair.
The drama of you still being involved in your exes issues.
There's a reason you found yourself in both situations

[Anonymous]

In this case, its neither. Move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't mess up someone's life with your drama.
Get a therapist

Don't even discuss it.

Discuss it with your therapist preferably during a discussion about why you are addicted to drama, dysfunctional relationships and men who aren't available to you for one reason or another

Don't have or need a therapist. I'm actually happy, feel good, lots of friends. What drama?
All is well - but you don't want to hear that haha Sorry.

You need a therapist because you are obsessed with this guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Infatuated and obsession have a very fine line and some overlapping.

What do you call it when you hope the OP is writing about you?

wishful thinking and a sliver of possibility

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How does one know if it’s infatuation or love that you’re feeling for someone? It’s seems all I do is think about this person. Trying to distract myself but inevitably my thoughts turn to them. What are they doing? Are they thinking about me too? When will I hear from them?

I have the same question - esp since I am not supposed to love this person (it would be majorly frowned upon and everyone would automatically say it's infatuation - but is it? I feel like I do love them. I am more concerned with their well being than hooking up with them - because we 'shouldn't' be doing that).

Their well being? Are they your patient or student or employee

No, just a lot younger than me. Not married.

But you are married and obsessed with your coworker.

No, he's definitely not my coworker. We work in very different industries! He is a very good friend and we have kissed etc.
Why do posters make up scenarios ha ha.

But you are married.

+1 I remember your prior thread. You are married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:How does one know if it’s infatuation or love that you’re feeling for someone? It’s seems all I do is think about this person. Trying to distract myself but inevitably my thoughts turn to them. What are they doing? Are they thinking about me too? When will I hear from them?

I have the same question - esp since I am not supposed to love this person (it would be majorly frowned upon and everyone would automatically say it's infatuation - but is it? I feel like I do love them. I am more concerned with their well being than hooking up with them - because we 'shouldn't' be doing that).

Their well being? Are they your patient or student or employee

No, just a lot younger than me. Not married.

But you are married and obsessed with your coworker.

No, he's definitely not my coworker. We work in very different industries! He is a very good friend and we have kissed etc.
Why do posters make up scenarios ha ha.

But you are married.

+1 I remember your prior thread. You are married.

NP. What's the prior thread?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How does one know if it’s infatuation or love that you’re feeling for someone? It’s seems all I do is think about this person. Trying to distract myself but inevitably my thoughts turn to them. What are they doing? Are they thinking about me too? When will I hear from them?

I have the same question - esp since I am not supposed to love this person (it would be majorly frowned upon and everyone would automatically say it's infatuation - but is it? I feel like I do love them. I am more concerned with their well being than hooking up with them - because we 'shouldn't' be doing that).

Their well being? Are they your patient or student or employee

No, just a lot younger than me. Not married.

But you are married and obsessed with your coworker.

No, he's definitely not my coworker. We work in very different industries! He is a very good friend and we have kissed etc.
Why do posters make up scenarios ha ha.

But you are married.

+1 I remember your prior thread. You are married.

NP. What's the prior thread?

I am not good at finding old thread, but She has several threads, she is obsessed with the guy. Her DH may be an alcoholic, but she has some mental illness too.

[Anonymous]

How much younger is he?