Infatuation vs love

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Anonymous wrote:God. All of these cheaters coveting other people’s spouses.

???? Op said this person is unmarried.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:God. All of these cheaters coveting other people’s spouses.

Just because you have a crush on a married person or even if you are truly in love with them… that doesn’t make you a cheater. A lot of us don’t act on our crushes.

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Anonymous wrote:God. All of these cheaters coveting other people’s spouses.

Just because you have a crush on a married person or even if you are truly in love with them… that doesn’t make you a cheater. A lot of us don’t act on our crushes.

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Anonymous wrote:God. All of these cheaters coveting other people’s spouses.

Just because you have a crush on a married person or even if you are truly in love with them… that doesn’t make you a cheater. A lot of us don’t act on our crushes.

It would be so weird and disturbing to find out some other woman was in love with your husband. Creepy

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Anonymous wrote:How does one know if it’s infatuation or love that you’re feeling for someone? It’s seems all I do is think about this person. Trying to distract myself but inevitably my thoughts turn to them. What are they doing? Are they thinking about me too? When will I hear from them?

I have the same question - esp since I am not supposed to love this person (it would be majorly frowned upon and everyone would automatically say it's infatuation - but is it? I feel like I do love them. I am more concerned with their well being than hooking up with them - because we 'shouldn't' be doing that).

Their well being? Are they your patient or student or employee

No, just a lot younger than me. Not married.

But you are married and obsessed with your coworker.

No, he's definitely not my coworker. We work in very different industries! He is a very good friend and we have kissed etc.
Why do posters make up scenarios ha ha.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:God. All of these cheaters coveting other people’s spouses.

Just because you have a crush on a married person or even if you are truly in love with them… that doesn’t make you a cheater. A lot of us don’t act on our crushes.

It would be so weird and disturbing to find out some other woman was in love with your husband. Creepy

Really? What does it matter? I honestly wouldn’t be bothered or surprised by that information

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Anonymous wrote:God. All of these cheaters coveting other people’s spouses.

Just because you have a crush on a married person or even if you are truly in love with them… that doesn’t make you a cheater. A lot of us don’t act on our crushes.

It would be so weird and disturbing to find out some other woman was in love with your husband. Creepy

Really? What does it matter? I honestly wouldn’t be bothered or surprised by that information

Because I’ve seen too many women stab other women in the back.

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Anonymous wrote:God. All of these cheaters coveting other people’s spouses.

Just because you have a crush on a married person or even if you are truly in love with them… that doesn’t make you a cheater. A lot of us don’t act on our crushes.

It would be so weird and disturbing to find out some other woman was in love with your husband. Creepy

Really? What does it matter? I honestly wouldn’t be bothered or surprised by that information

When they start sending him messages and emails you might change your mind.

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Anonymous wrote:How does one know if it’s infatuation or love that you’re feeling for someone? It’s seems all I do is think about this person. Trying to distract myself but inevitably my thoughts turn to them. What are they doing? Are they thinking about me too? When will I hear from them?

I have the same question - esp since I am not supposed to love this person (it would be majorly frowned upon and everyone would automatically say it's infatuation - but is it? I feel like I do love them. I am more concerned with their well being than hooking up with them - because we 'shouldn't' be doing that).

Their well being? Are they your patient or student or employee

No, just a lot younger than me. Not married.

But you are married and obsessed with your coworker.

No, he's definitely not my coworker. We work in very different industries! He is a very good friend and we have kissed etc.
Why do posters make up scenarios ha ha.

Quit kidding someone else’s husband, Amy Robach.

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Anonymous wrote:How does one know if it’s infatuation or love that you’re feeling for someone? It’s seems all I do is think about this person. Trying to distract myself but inevitably my thoughts turn to them. What are they doing? Are they thinking about me too? When will I hear from them?

I have the same question - esp since I am not supposed to love this person (it would be majorly frowned upon and everyone would automatically say it's infatuation - but is it? I feel like I do love them. I am more concerned with their well being than hooking up with them - because we 'shouldn't' be doing that).

Their well being? Are they your patient or student or employee

No, just a lot younger than me. Not married.

But you are married and obsessed with your coworker.

No, he's definitely not my coworker. We work in very different industries! He is a very good friend and we have kissed etc.
Why do posters make up scenarios ha ha.

Quit kidding someone else’s husband, Amy Robach.

*kissing

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Anonymous wrote:How does one know if it’s infatuation or love that you’re feeling for someone? It’s seems all I do is think about this person. Trying to distract myself but inevitably my thoughts turn to them. What are they doing? Are they thinking about me too? When will I hear from them?

I have the same question - esp since I am not supposed to love this person (it would be majorly frowned upon and everyone would automatically say it's infatuation - but is it? I feel like I do love them. I am more concerned with their well being than hooking up with them - because we 'shouldn't' be doing that).

Their well being? Are they your patient or student or employee

No, just a lot younger than me. Not married.

But you are married and obsessed with your coworker.

No, he's definitely not my coworker. We work in very different industries! He is a very good friend and we have kissed etc.
Why do posters make up scenarios ha ha.

But you are married.

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Anonymous wrote:How does one know if it’s infatuation or love that you’re feeling for someone? It’s seems all I do is think about this person. Trying to distract myself but inevitably my thoughts turn to them. What are they doing? Are they thinking about me too? When will I hear from them?

I have the same question - esp since I am not supposed to love this person (it would be majorly frowned upon and everyone would automatically say it's infatuation - but is it? I feel like I do love them. I am more concerned with their well being than hooking up with them - because we 'shouldn't' be doing that).

Their well being? Are they your patient or student or employee

No, just a lot younger than me. Not married.

But you are married and obsessed with your coworker.

No, he's definitely not my coworker. We work in very different industries! He is a very good friend and we have kissed etc.
Why do posters make up scenarios ha ha.

You are a loser.

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Anonymous wrote:How does one know if it’s infatuation or love that you’re feeling for someone? It’s seems all I do is think about this person. Trying to distract myself but inevitably my thoughts turn to them. What are they doing? Are they thinking about me too? When will I hear from them?

I have the same question - esp since I am not supposed to love this person (it would be majorly frowned upon and everyone would automatically say it's infatuation - but is it? I feel like I do love them. I am more concerned with their well being than hooking up with them - because we 'shouldn't' be doing that).

Their well being? Are they your patient or student or employee

No, just a lot younger than me. Not married.

But you are married and obsessed with your coworker.

No, he's definitely not my coworker. We work in very different industries! He is a very good friend and we have kissed etc.
Why do posters make up scenarios ha ha.

But you are married.

I know, right. JFC people suck.

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Anonymous wrote:How does one know if it’s infatuation or love that you’re feeling for someone? It’s seems all I do is think about this person. Trying to distract myself but inevitably my thoughts turn to them. What are they doing? Are they thinking about me too? When will I hear from them?

I have the same question - esp since I am not supposed to love this person (it would be majorly frowned upon and everyone would automatically say it's infatuation - but is it? I feel like I do love them. I am more concerned with their well being than hooking up with them - because we 'shouldn't' be doing that).

Their well being? Are they your patient or student or employee

No, just a lot younger than me. Not married.

But you are married and obsessed with your coworker.

No, he's definitely not my coworker. We work in very different industries! He is a very good friend and we have kissed etc.
Why do posters make up scenarios ha ha.

Quit kidding someone else’s husband, Amy Robach.

He's definitely not married!! He's hardly dating, although I do hope he meets a wonderful woman his own age one day.

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Anonymous wrote:How does one know if it’s infatuation or love that you’re feeling for someone? It’s seems all I do is think about this person. Trying to distract myself but inevitably my thoughts turn to them. What are they doing? Are they thinking about me too? When will I hear from them?

I have the same question - esp since I am not supposed to love this person (it would be majorly frowned upon and everyone would automatically say it's infatuation - but is it? I feel like I do love them. I am more concerned with their well being than hooking up with them - because we 'shouldn't' be doing that).

Their well being? Are they your patient or student or employee

No, just a lot younger than me. Not married.

But you are married and obsessed with your coworker.

No, he's definitely not my coworker. We work in very different industries! He is a very good friend and we have kissed etc.
Why do posters make up scenarios ha ha.

But you are married.

Yes but going through divorce due to his severe alcohol addiction and abuse. I am still helping him though (going through detox now).