Thank you from nanny

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We put cash in a card and there was no acknowledgement. I am just not saying anything and hoping she got it, but I’m definitely offended that I didn’t even get a “thank you” verbally.

Is this OP or a different poster?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If it hasn't cleared by now, I would use that as an opportunity to ask if she would mind depositing it soon so you can balance your checkbook for December. If she misplaced it for some reason or it dropped out of the card and was lost, you can put a stop payment and reissue the check.

Don't do this. Lord.

Why not? The check might have been lost.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If it hasn't cleared by now, I would use that as an opportunity to ask if she would mind depositing it soon so you can balance your checkbook for December. If she misplaced it for some reason or it dropped out of the card and was lost, you can put a stop payment and reissue the check.

It doesn't need to be deposited? for that tho

It needs to be deposited electronically or at the bank/atm to clear. You can put a stop payment on a check until it clears.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Disagree with others. I'm a date night sitter for many families and received bonuses/gifts from around 6. Cash was in cards. I said ty in person then when I physically opened the card or gift bag when alone, sent a thank you again via text. It's just the polite thing to do imo.

Absolutely not. One of the other.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Disagree with others. I'm a date night sitter for many families and received bonuses/gifts from around 6. Cash was in cards. I said ty in person then when I physically opened the card or gift bag when alone, sent a thank you again via text. It's just the polite thing to do imo.

Absolutely not. One of the other.

No. People with good manners do both.