Have you ever been “flewed out”?

[Anonymous]

I knew someone, years ago, who would have an NFL player fly her to away games so he could massage her feet the morning of the game.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:definition:

To be flown out to the city, state, or country by a guy/girl who wants to see you badly and who’s about to spend a bag(money) then send you home.

Popularized by City Girls.

If you are dating young guys, its unlikely. If you are dating daddies and aren't independent or feminist then its more likely.

[Anonymous]

It is not that rare. My company used to fly my boyfriend or any friend to Amsterdam once a week so I could stay put and being productive during the week.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s not flewed out…. Flewed is not a word!

+1. I was "flown out" by my date.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yep. I met my husband when he was 25, I was 26. He was a consultant. His company paid for me to fly to the S.American country he was working every other week. I worked 4 10 hour days and would leave Thursday evenings snd return Sundays. He would alternate and fly back home. He then had projects in cities around the US and we continued doing that.

That's not being flewed out

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is not that rare. My company used to fly my boyfriend or any friend to Amsterdam once a week so I could stay put and being productive during the week.

This also doesn't qualify

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s “flewed” and I don’t understand why, OP, you would ask this question on here. Know your audience. The term is popular with a subset of folks they are not on DCUM.

There are definitely LSA fonts on here also

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yep. I met my husband when he was 25, I was 26. He was a consultant. His company paid for me to fly to the S.American country he was working every other week. I worked 4 10 hour days and would leave Thursday evenings snd return Sundays. He would alternate and fly back home. He then had projects in cities around the US and we continued doing that.

That's not being flewed out

It was when it was happening mere weeks after meeting because we couldn’t be apart.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:definition:

To be flown out to the city, state, or country by a guy/girl who wants to see you badly and who’s about to spend a bag(money) then send you home.

Popularized by City Girls.

Not popular at all.

Is this for online initial relationships or IRL relationships and someone moved? And one person can’t afford a plane ticket ever and the other can?

[Anonymous]

About 10 years ago I was dating a guy very casually then I moved across the country . He flew me back to the east coast for a long weekend. It was fun.

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend At the time worked for a consulting company that reimbursed him for a flight per week. He had s roommate in a company-paid furnished appt in various cities - (NYC , San Antonio, Chicago). and the roommate would fly home or visit other cities on the weekends. My BF would pay to have me fly to him Sometimes he would visit me and sometimes go home.

This was 20 years ago. We were in our late 20s. We eventually married

[Anonymous]

No but one of my biggest pet peeves is when anyone refers to anyone’s husband as ‘flying’ then somewhere.
It’s joint money - the pilot flies you. So gross

[Anonymous]

This isn’t about boyfriends or husbands paying for your plane ticket to come visit. It’s more like a Sugar Daddy situation with someone you aren’t in an exclusive relationship with- like if a D list celebrity messages an influencer on IG or an athlete you met at a bar who texts his proposition. There’s an expectation of upscale wine/dine, nice hotel and maybe an expensive gift or shopping. It is softer and less businesslike than actual escorting, as the woman might be hopeful she can turn the hook-up into a real relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think this is one of those phrases white people aren’t supposed to use. I’m not saying there aren’t people on DCUM who can say this, but perhaps many here should not.

I think that it is important to know your audience. OP, if you have been here for any appreciable length of time, you know that this site skews older and white. Yes, there are those who don't fit one or both of those (including me), but still...that is not the type of lingo that most here would use.

That said, I'll answer the question, yes I have.

[Anonymous]

I've done this in sugar dating, but we never used the term "flewed out".