I wish I could draw men's attention the way my friend does

[Anonymous]

Women care way more about how women look then men do. Have a sense of humor, know how to cook, wash your hoo ha regularly, be kind to others. Most men could care less what you’re wearing, they probably prefer you not be wearing anything if we’re being honest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I wonder what caliber of men she is pulling with undone hair, little make-up and sweatpants combo.

A lot of doctors and other professional men. They are all nice guys too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A beautiful woman in sweats may seem more approachable to men than a beautiful woman all dressed/made up.

Only under 30. If you are over 30...no. They sloppy not trying look is no longer cute once you are out of college

We're over 30. It's kinda why I find it interesting. Because we're always told we have to do all this to attract male attention and she does none of that

[Anonymous]

As a male, I have never even noticed or cared about "nails".

[Anonymous]

This is funny to me because my DH and I are the classic "grumpy sunshine," but I am the grump. LOL - but he loves that about me. There are men out there who are drawn to women like your friend, but there are others out there who like grumps too.

[Anonymous]

Probably a sunny/flirty personality. I have a friend like that. She is pretty but not overly so, but guys are really drawn to her. She is just really sweet and makes you feel like you have all her attention when you talk to her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She seems to put no effort into it at all.
She doesn't wear makeup or style her hair. She doesn't get her nails done.
I will says she's tall with a slim/ thick figure, but she doesn't do anything to highlight it . Her standard attire is sweatpants and a hoodie.

She's pretty shy and doesn't talk much but is an absolute sweetheart to everyone.
Men flock to her. Get all silly and goo goo eyed for her. Go out of there way to help her.
Flirt with her.

Why do you want this?

[Anonymous]

Is she smart?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a male, I have never even noticed or cared about "nails".

As a woman, my sense is that many of us confuse which signals we use to attract men vs signal to other women our "superior" desirability.

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She seems to put no effort into it at all.
She doesn't wear makeup or style her hair. She doesn't get her nails done.
I will says she's tall with a slim/ thick figure, but she doesn't do anything to highlight it . Her standard attire is sweatpants and a hoodie.

She's pretty shy and doesn't talk much but is an absolute sweetheart to everyone.
Men flock to her. Get all silly and goo goo eyed for her. Go out of there way to help her.
Flirt with her.

There’s your answer. You don’t have to be a 10. Men just want a woman that’s pleasant to look at and pleasant to be around.

lol no they don't

lol. yes they do. that's all that they want

[Anonymous]

She’s comfortable in her own skin.

Confidence is hot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A beautiful woman in sweats may seem more approachable to men than a beautiful woman all dressed/made up.

Only under 30. If you are over 30...no. They sloppy not trying look is no longer cute once you are out of college

We're over 30. It's kinda why I find it interesting. Because we're always told we have to do all this to attract male attention and she does none of that

Who is told that?!

I tell my daughters not to bother. They are always circling. I have always dressed like a tomboy. I think I have spent 6 months single since age 15.

TBH I think maybe you are trying to hard and she is playing it cool (which works).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She seems to put no effort into it at all.
She doesn't wear makeup or style her hair. She doesn't get her nails done.
I will says she's tall with a slim/ thick figure, but she doesn't do anything to highlight it . Her standard attire is sweatpants and a hoodie.

She's pretty shy and doesn't talk much but is an absolute sweetheart to everyone.
Men flock to her. Get all silly and goo goo eyed for her. Go out of there way to help her.
Flirt with her.

what does that look like?

NP. A slim hourglass. What “curvy” used to mean.

cindy crawford or sophia vagara not Gweneth

Yes, most men are very attracted to “slim thick” women.

Even Sir Mix A Lot of “Baby Got Back” fame didn’t want an overweight woman. Lyrics: “ I'll keep my women like Flo Jo,
A word to the thick soul sistas, I wanna get with ya.” Flo Jo the track star was healthy and not obese.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She seems to put no effort into it at all.
She doesn't wear makeup or style her hair. She doesn't get her nails done.
I will says she's tall with a slim/ thick figure, but she doesn't do anything to highlight it . Her standard attire is sweatpants and a hoodie.

She's pretty shy and doesn't talk much but is an absolute sweetheart to everyone.
Men flock to her. Get all silly and goo goo eyed for her. Go out of there way to help her.
Flirt with her.

what does that look like?

NP. A slim hourglass. What “curvy” used to mean.

cindy crawford or sophia vagara not Gweneth

Yes, most men are very attracted to “slim thick” women.

Even Sir Mix A Lot of “Baby Got Back” fame didn’t want an overweight woman. Lyrics: “ I'll keep my women like Flo Jo,
A word to the thick soul sistas, I wanna get with ya.” Flo Jo the track star was healthy and not obese.

That song is 30 years old. Women are a lot fatter on average now, but yeah, I hear you.