I wish I could draw men's attention the way my friend does

[Anonymous]

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I wonder what caliber of men she is pulling with undone hair, little make-up and sweatpants combo.

Probably something like this, she sounds dreadfully hideous….

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She seems to put no effort into it at all.
She doesn't wear makeup or style her hair. She doesn't get her nails done.
I will says she's tall with a slim/ thick figure, but she doesn't do anything to highlight it . Her standard attire is sweatpants and a hoodie.

She's pretty shy and doesn't talk much but is an absolute sweetheart to everyone.
Men flock to her. Get all silly and goo goo eyed for her. Go out of there way to help her.
Flirt with her.

what does that look like?

NP. A slim hourglass. What “curvy” used to mean.

Sounds like she has a huge rack. I have found your answer.

[Anonymous]

A beautiful woman in sweats may seem more approachable to men than a beautiful woman all dressed/made up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A beautiful woman in sweats may seem more approachable to men than a beautiful woman all dressed/made up.

+1. I'd say I was similar to your friend pre-mom/wife life. I don't wear much make up, don't color my hair, get my nails done, etc but guys always seemed to be interested in striking up conversations with me. I think I was approachable and warm. My DH still prefers me in jeans and a tee to something trendy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She seems to put no effort into it at all.
She doesn't wear makeup or style her hair. She doesn't get her nails done.
I will says she's tall with a slim/ thick figure, but she doesn't do anything to highlight it . Her standard attire is sweatpants and a hoodie.

She's pretty shy and doesn't talk much but is an absolute sweetheart to everyone.
Men flock to her. Get all silly and goo goo eyed for her. Go out of there way to help her.
Flirt with her.

There’s your answer. You don’t have to be a 10. Men just want a woman that’s pleasant to look at and pleasant to be around.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She seems to put no effort into it at all.
She doesn't wear makeup or style her hair. She doesn't get her nails done.
I will says she's tall with a slim/ thick figure, but she doesn't do anything to highlight it . Her standard attire is sweatpants and a hoodie.

She's pretty shy and doesn't talk much but is an absolute sweetheart to everyone.
Men flock to her. Get all silly and goo goo eyed for her. Go out of there way to help her.
Flirt with her.

what does that look like?

NP. A slim hourglass. What “curvy” used to mean.

cindy crawford or sophia vagara not Gweneth

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She seems to put no effort into it at all.
She doesn't wear makeup or style her hair. She doesn't get her nails done.
I will says she's tall with a slim/ thick figure, but she doesn't do anything to highlight it . Her standard attire is sweatpants and a hoodie.

She's pretty shy and doesn't talk much but is an absolute sweetheart to everyone.
Men flock to her. Get all silly and goo goo eyed for her. Go out of there way to help her.
Flirt with her.

There’s your answer. You don’t have to be a 10. Men just want a woman that’s pleasant to look at and pleasant to be around.

lol no they don't

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She seems to put no effort into it at all.
She doesn't wear makeup or style her hair. She doesn't get her nails done.
I will says she's tall with a slim/ thick figure, but she doesn't do anything to highlight it . Her standard attire is sweatpants and a hoodie.

She's pretty shy and doesn't talk much but is an absolute sweetheart to everyone.
Men flock to her. Get all silly and goo goo eyed for her. Go out of there way to help her.
Flirt with her.

what does that look like?

Well, true slim hourglasses are fairly rare as a body type. (Most celebs who are slim hourglasses have had a lot of plastic surgery to achieve it).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A beautiful woman in sweats may seem more approachable to men than a beautiful woman all dressed/made up.

Only under 30. If you are over 30...no. They sloppy not trying look is no longer cute once you are out of college

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She seems to put no effort into it at all.
She doesn't wear makeup or style her hair. She doesn't get her nails done.
I will says she's tall with a slim/ thick figure, but she doesn't do anything to highlight it . Her standard attire is sweatpants and a hoodie.

She's pretty shy and doesn't talk much but is an absolute sweetheart to everyone.
Men flock to her. Get all silly and goo goo eyed for her. Go out of there way to help her.
Flirt with her.

There’s your answer. You don’t have to be a 10. Men just want a woman that’s pleasant to look at and pleasant to be around.

lol no they don't

Yes they do which is why I have less interest in them as I age. I am looking for something different or just myself. I can't be one expression all day long and don't expect anyone else to be either. It just seems boring for me and the person I'd be with.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:A beautiful woman in sweats may seem more approachable to men than a beautiful woman all dressed/made up.

Only under 30. If you are over 30...no. They sloppy not trying look is no longer cute once you are out of college

I don't know. I was just with this married guy who was all over this other mom in sweats every day. She was cute and chatty and that's pretty much all that he was looking for. She made him feel good about himself. That was about it.

[Anonymous]

if she is slim thicc (think iskra lawrence) with a pretty face, nice smile, agreeable personality, and seems to radiate warmth/openness and is easy to talk to then there are all of your answers.

this should not need any further explanation

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A beautiful woman in sweats may seem more approachable to men than a beautiful woman all dressed/made up.

Only under 30. If you are over 30...no. They sloppy not trying look is no longer cute once you are out of college

I don't know. I was just with this married guy who was all over this other mom in sweats every day. She was cute and chatty and that's pretty much all that he was looking for. She made him feel good about himself. That was about it.

+1. I think people here vastly overestimate how picky men are. Laugh at my jokes. Don't be significantly unattractive. That's really all it takes. Of course, I'm married and 40 pounds overweight so you might not that excited by the possibility.

[Anonymous]

It's her vibe. She's approachable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A beautiful woman in sweats may seem more approachable to men than a beautiful woman all dressed/made up.

Only under 30. If you are over 30...no. They sloppy not trying look is no longer cute once you are out of college

I don't know. I was just with this married guy who was all over this other mom in sweats every day. She was cute and chatty and that's pretty much all that he was looking for. She made him feel good about himself. That was about it.

This. Doesn’t matter if you are pleasant, kind, etc.

If you lift his ego you are all in.