| so if I am the primary educational source for my kid- why do I pay taxes to support schools. Also, how many posts have I seen on here- respect the teachers! But now- they don't want to be accountable for reading outcomes and the inability or unwillingness to teach? I am so confused. Please pick a side and stay on it. Also- you want more money? |
You are still going to pay those taxes when the kid is out of the school system, it doesn’t give you any more power than a 65-year-old grandfather. |
Episode 4 is all about how easily a teacher can fall into teaching practices that aren't supported by research. https://features.apmreports.org/sold-a-story/ It starts with the training they receive in college and it continues with the leadership, curricula, and professional development they encounter on the job. Teachers have been swimming in Balanced Literacy for years. It's unrealistic to expect them to buck the system like that. Accountability starts at the top. |
But nobody tells new parents this - I am the child of uneducated immigrants. Everything I needed to learn, I learned in school. I have a phD, I'm successful, yet I trusted that my kids would also learn everything they needed to know in school, and that was not the case. My child was in 2nd grade during Covid, and didn't learn how to read in K and 1st, so we had to spend all of last year (3rd grade) paying a tutor to get her up to speed after three years without learning how to read!!! |
No they should blame the 30 yr old. An adult is an adult. |
First- Pay taxes = get stuff like free babysitting for school age children From a republican stance if you have kids why don’t you want to work with them? It is fun? Why have kids if you don’t want to teach them they are learning from you all the time may as well teach them some thing. Second - so now you are saying all teachers willingly said f that I’m going to mess your kid up and not teach reading? That is insane! Yes I’m tired of teacher bashing. For political, misogynistic and general civil and worker rights I am tired of teacher bashing. If you have credible peer reviewed research to link to any of your claims I will listen. If you have crap statistics you make up or just want to take out anger on teachers? See ya! |
If your child could not read by time they got to second grade, then yes you should have done something at that point. |
Lady, were you around in first grade when school abruptly stoped in the middle of the school year??? Were you around when kids were 100% virtual while I was working full-time? I hired a virtual tutor during that year to teach my kid to read. So, like F_____ YOU, B___TCH. |
No-What about when the teacher says your child is doing fine and gives them all 4s? This is your first child, so you are trusting the schools. |
Correct. I was a teacher who taught balanced literacy. I knew how to teach phonics and could see that it was not working, but I had no choice. I secretly kept phonics books for the kids who struggled and taught them (secretly again) during lunch. But overall I taught the same balanced literacy/whole language crap that everyone else did, because I was forced to. We were required to all structure our lessons the same way, with the same books and activities, and the admin and literacy coaches would check to make sure we did. Anyone caught doing something different would be reviled as a bad teacher, isolated and harassed by admin, and soon pushed out. |
Okay, to start, she had a story to sell: that phonics is the way to go and teachers were “wrong” not to teach phonics. It is a good story in the current climate where parents rightly want spelling work. Here is a veteran education reporter (Valerie Strauss from Washington Post) with a story that tells both sides: https://www.washingtonpost.com/education/2019/03/27/case-why-both-sides-reading-wars-debate-are-wrong-proposed-solution/ Here is a quote: This conceptual confusion persists. Bowers (2018) shows that every subsequent meta-analysis taken to support systematic phonics over whole language has made the same mistake of comparing systematic phonics to a mixture of different methods, or comparing systematic phonics to interventions that included no phonics. Accordingly, none of these meta-analyses should be taken to support systematic phonics over whole language. Here is a further historical perspective: https://www.aare.edu.au/blog/?p=9488 Basically, there is historical perspective that this is a “side” issue. Keeping to one “side” versus another allows educational curriculum companies to make money because districts always need to buy new curriculums to that meet the new “side’s” requirements. The broader educational issue is that this is not just in reading, but also in broader educational policy: how districts choose curriculum, how companies make it and why it is profitable to keep the idea of “sides” going. |
You clearly are feeling self-conscious about it, the PP really hit a nerve. Which means you know you were in the wrong. |
Should have done what? Asked the school to evaluate my child? Oh I did that and was gaslit about how she was on grade level and there was no issue. So we got private testing (waited four months and it $3800 out of pocket) and then we had to hire a private tutor at $125 per hour to teach phonics. Oh and then the school “reading specialist” kept trying to teach whole language. It was an overall awesome experience. |
But now you know and are empowered to fix it, better sooner than later! Also, I'm surprised that you were not aware that many kids start to slowly read by 1st (sometimes even earlier in K) so you should have seen some warning signs by late 1st grade, irrespective of Covid. Personally, I'm trying to teach my kindergartener how to read now, and I'm expecting that it will click to some degree *this year* and she'll be able to read some simple picture books with easy words/sentences. If she does not improve during beginning to middle of 1st grade next year, I will feel that something is wrong. I'm not trying to blame you personally but think that parents should know the signs and be aware of this (they should certainly be asking teachers the hard questions if they don't see their kid start to pick up interest in reading, or improvement across quarters). And what they do in school is not enough, parents have to practice a little each day with their kids at home, that will bring tremendous improvement and result in kids being early readers. |
| No wonder FCPS shelled out the money for Lexia and is forcing teachers to meet weekly minutes, analyze the data and deliver Lexia lessons based on that data. |