Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Any kids? Keep it for them and let them melt down the metal and re-use the stone. That's a much better "value" than hawking it for 30% of the appraised value.
I have three kids and had one large diamond. I don’t see the point of giving one a diamond that symbolizes broken promises and a broken family.
Or you could look at it as the diamond that symbolizes the love and the union that created you
so here now you can save money.
This. You really think one of your sons wants to shell out for an engagement ring while simultaneously trying to save for a wedding AND a house downpayment AND prepping for a kid within 5 years AND....
Hold the ring for one of your kids. One of them will want it. Don't do anything with the ring until you're in a better head space where you see it as "just another asset," as mentioned by a PP.