two piece ok for girls?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Ah my girls (6 and 8) have been wearing bikinis since forever.
I am European and DH is South American. I wonder what other people think about us when we go to public pools in DC with the girls in (tiny) bikinis and son in speedo 😊.

We buy swimsuit in Europe or Brazil because we hate the big swimsuits sold in the US.



This is a store where we buy most swimsuits (adults and kids)
https://www.calzedonia.com/us/kids/girls/swimwear_and_bikinis/
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Anonymous wrote:it's fine OP. Don't listen to the weirdos who think an 8yo is sexualized if her bathing suit shows her stomach


No, what's weird is 8 year olds in bikinis. THAT'S what's weird.


Stop staring at little girls.


Oh please.

The mother wants to put the girl in a bikini at 8. It's gross. I highly doubt the girl came up with it on her own.


Tell me you've never met a kid without telling me you've never met a kid.
Anonymous
I don't like anything on prepubescent girls that is designed to create the illusion of breasts or hourglass hips or both. That goes for pants, skirts, dresses, tops, and bathing suits, one piece or two piece. Many two piece bathing suits are totally fine, and some one pieces fail my test.
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Anonymous wrote:it's fine OP. Don't listen to the weirdos who think an 8yo is sexualized if her bathing suit shows her stomach


No, what's weird is 8 year olds in bikinis. THAT'S what's weird.


Stop staring at little girls.


Oh please.

The mother wants to put the girl in a bikini at 8. It's gross. I highly doubt the girl came up with it on her own.


Tell me you've never met a kid without telling me you've never met a kid.


I think some of the hysterical posts must be imagining thong bikini bottoms with string tops. Or something. The reality is the "bikinis" look like modest bottoms and sports bra tops. What difference does it make if a bit of belly and back are out? Many boys have the full back and chest on display.
Anonymous
Most of you should never go to Brazil.
Anonymous
I got my 8 yo a swim suit with a bikini top this year. She'll mostly wear it under her rash guard, but will likely take off the rash guard and put on a cover up to ride home. Wearing a wet rash guard can be uncomfortable and cold. Having a sports bra style swim top under her rash guard means she can change poolside to head home. ::shrug::
Anonymous
My 8 yo daughter likes the Athleta suits which are mix and match in coordinating tops and bottoms. She has the bikini top which covers a lot, there are also rash guards, tankini tops, and board shorts. She wears the rash guard top as often as the bikini, mostly depending on the weather since the hotter and sunnier the more likely she is to burn, so sometimes she wants less sun exposure. I don't find any of these risqué or judgment worthy.

https://athleta.gap.com/browse/category.do?cid=1054836&nav=meganav%3AAthleta%20Girl%3ACATEGORIES%3ASwim
Anonymous
i'm European and I think girls should only wear bottoms until like 8? and then maybe a one piece until you get actual boobs. and babies should def be naked at the beach! Though i do see how rashguard and bottoms would be comfortable. When my son wears a rashguard i don't think of him as wearing a 2-piece bathing suit though.
Anonymous
I'm letting my 9 year old wear a modest two piece suit this summer - she's been asking for two years and I finally found one that we both like. It has high waisted bottoms and a crop top like length and shows maybe 2" of her belly which I think is appropriate and makes her happy.
Anonymous
For this age group most "bikini" tops look more like cropped tank tops and I think those are cute with high waisted swim bottoms.
Anonymous
I let mine pick any suit. But, I also require a rash guard for sun protection.

I think a two piece is fine though as long as it’s cut for a kid body and not meant to be flashy. Same for any other clothing.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:it's fine OP. Don't listen to the weirdos who think an 8yo is sexualized if her bathing suit shows her stomach


No, what's weird is 8 year olds in bikinis. THAT'S what's weird.


Stop staring at little girls.


Oh please.

The mother wants to put the girl in a bikini at 8. It's gross. I highly doubt the girl came up with it on her own.


Tell me you've never met a kid without telling me you've never met a kid.


I think some of the hysterical posts must be imagining thong bikini bottoms with string tops. Or something. The reality is the "bikinis" look like modest bottoms and sports bra tops. What difference does it make if a bit of belly and back are out? Many boys have the full back and chest on display.


Anyone who thinks seeing a girl’s torso is not appropriate is responding to sick intrusive thoughts. They feel shame for having those thoughts so they would rather police little girls from wearing what makes them feel comfortable and happy.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Sure, OP, go ahead and sexualize your 3rd grader. Gross.


You think THIS: https://www.hannaandersson.com/shop/67404-SK3-100.html?gclid=CjwKCAjwv-GUBhAzEiwASUMm4nRZULiLXlacDff-zcya9uDZoaqi2zm_wlbK9aNFRk9oB_lEoG0HCRoCDX8QAvD_BwE sexualizes a kid? If so YOU are the one with the problem, not OP. Get your disgusting mind out of the filthy gutter sicko.

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Anonymous wrote:it's fine OP. Don't listen to the weirdos who think an 8yo is sexualized if her bathing suit shows her stomach


No, what's weird is 8 year olds in bikinis. THAT'S what's weird.


Stop staring at little girls.


Oh please.

The mother wants to put the girl in a bikini at 8. It's gross. I highly doubt the girl came up with it on her own.


Tell me you've never met a kid without telling me you've never met a kid.


I think some of the hysterical posts must be imagining thong bikini bottoms with string tops. Or something. The reality is the "bikinis" look like modest bottoms and sports bra tops. What difference does it make if a bit of belly and back are out? Many boys have the full back and chest on display.


Yeah, I don't get it. Plus so many kids wear rash guards these days and it's so much easier to do that with a bikini bottom than a one piece. A lot of two piece suits offer more coverage than the average tank one piece, with shorts and sleeves. We do these often because I love minimizing sunscreen needs. But we also do skimpier ones for evening swims and I find they are easier to change in and out of.

Also, two piece suits tend to last longer because my kid has a long torso and will grow out of one pieces super fast.
Anonymous
I wish all kids & adults would wear rashguards to protect their skin. Most people are applying sunscreen with bad chemicals.

Need to think long term effects of sun and sunscreen.

We wear rashguards and use sunscreen with zinc oxide. Sure not best look but neither is Mohs procedure.
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