| I am all for giving a kid some money for graduation. Setting up a Go Fund Me for tuition makes me believe that they cannot afford this school. This is not good planning. They chances that they receive enough funding is low. |
Was thinking the same thing as you. Like nobody’s gonna make Him take the SATs and so forth. Talk about privilege. |
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What's tacky?
"... his parents seek donations..." for his education. If people want to offer that's one thing but actively seeking donations when he could get scholarships or loans is another thing. Tacky! Also setting up a public Go Fund Me Site.... sheesh.... hey, I'm not as rich as I want to be either, maybe I should set up a go fund me page to ensure my kids don't slide down the class ladder. |
The school is probably way too expensive for them but there’s nothing OP can do or say about that besides offer a little bit of money that might be a nice gesture. |
From the OP, I get the gist that the godson’s family is poor. |
Well He does have an eternity to complete any task. |
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There is no mention of Go Fund Me in this WAPO opinion article: https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2022/04/27/may-1-college-decision-day/
All DCUM college costs posts should consider these hard truths. |
Pay for your own kid’s college or have them start the two years at community college. A GFM for tuition? Asinine. |
Sometimes the only affordable school is a community college. |
| Gofundme takes a 2.9% fee of every donation. you should just write a check and send the money as a personalgift each year. Also, the funds the parents receive through Gofundme are likely considered income and taxable. Not worth it and tacky to ask for money for an oos college that they could not afford in the first place. |
| Looks like his parents did not plan properly and now asking for handouts. Embarrassing. |
Also first generation to go to college. |
| I’m pretty convinced the parents just meant they’d prefer cash to gifts for graduation. Give him $1000 if you want. It has no tax implications for anyone and you’ll know you paid for his books or beer. I don’t get why this is so complicated for you. |
| I would only pay it directly to the school. |
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First of all, I am thoroughly tickled reading about Jesus' academic achievements. Now I don't feel so bad for switching majors so many times.
Now, on to OP. I think it would be nice to "create" a scholarship (if in name only) to provide this gift to your godson. He can list it on his resume. 1-2K is nothing to sneeze at, and I work with a volunteer org that only provides a $750 "book award" to help students. |