Not to mention, I honestly cannot even imagine what an Indian person would think if you served them frozen rice when it takes 2 minutes to set up a rice cooker. |
| How about a Thanksgiving dinner type of menu? Cook a turkey (or 3 turkey breasts if you can't find turkey at the grocery store that time of year, or bake 3 whole chickens). stuffing, mashed potatoes, gravy, corn, green bean casserole, pumpkin pie, apple pie, rolls. |
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We have made cajun shrimp boil for a crowd several times and it has gone over well. You boil red potatoes, corn on the cob, sausage and shrimp all together in zatarains cajun seasoning. It's pretty easy. You just need really big pots to do it.
We cook most of the potatoes and corn ahead of time and then put them in our big turkey roasting pan with water and put it in the oven on like 200 degrees to stay warm while the rest of the stuff cooks. We only do that because we don't have enough huge pots to cook it all for a really big crowd all at once. |
| As an Indian American who is used to this scenario; if you aren’t used to cooking large quantities of Indian veg food then don’ start now. Enlist the visiting relatives to help but only if they are used to cooking back home and/or get food catered and purchase staples like frozen rotis and a big bag of rice. |
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Breakfast: get muffins and croissants at Costco, plus lots of fruit and yogurt
Lunch: make a few salads (broccoli, German potato, etc) with leftovers from dinners Dinner: go with a meat, steamed veg, starch and a side sauce. Rotisserie chicken, salmon filet, barbacoa, shrimp kebabs, etc. Keep the meals simple with options to add flavor. |
Agree with this. One or two nights of dinner? Fine. But 3X a day for a week? Hell.No. Do you not work, op? Because there’s no way I’d do this if I worked full time. Also, my DH would be helping me, if not in charge of feeding his family. |
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Agree with everyone - breakfast needs to be self-serve and lunch needs to be someone else’s responsibility.
Depending on MIL and your relationship, could you ask her “while you’re here, can you teach me how you make X? DH says mine isn’t as good as yours!” Whatever. Do whatever it takes to put a positive spin on it. Then take MIL to an indian grocery and spend an afternoon making (that things). Use your time at the grocery to have her select some other stuff, preferably convenient frozen premade options .
Do you have a crockpot? Borrow a second one and use them. Also, cook one eat multiple times…. Can DH grill up a bunch of chicken breasts one night? With the express idea of having leftovers for chicken pasta or aonething the next night? My fear would be the cleanup… egads all the dishes. Also, do you know for sure that they will eat “American foods?” Want to eat them? Will avoid them like the plague? That could make a HUGE difference. Tacos, for instance, will easily meet the dietary restrictions but only if everyone will actually eat them! |
| I don’t have contacts in this area but there are Indian women who do small catering gigs or will cook for a family. You should do that a few times while they’re here. |
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How do that many people sleep in your house? Or sit at the table?
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Nope. Why would you do this? |
+1 and hope you have a second fridge and no full time job. |
| Can you do compostable paper plates for breakfast and lunch? |
Loves it. |
Yeah right. |
This sounds like someone who has a work from home job but they ain/t really workin!!!! |