Changing diapers at a friend's house

[Anonymous]

This is OP.
I didn't mean to offend people with kids or something like that.
I just don't know about the manners about kids that's why I asked.
I was gonna tell her to bring it home if you guys normally do. but I'll tell
her to throw it in outside bin since it seems normal.
Thank you!!

[Anonymous]

I always asked and I always had dog poop bags to wrap them in first/have something to take with if needed.

[Anonymous]

Yeah your friend has bad man wrs. I ways carries a bag with me to dispose of those type of things. I took it to the outside trash. If a friend came to my house I just made sure to dump the larger trash can immediately.

I have walked in people's homes and known immediately they have babies or pets. That is not a pleasant smell. Your friend is rude.

[Anonymous]

Man wrs =manners

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is OP.
I didn't mean to offend people with kids or something like that.
I just don't know about the manners about kids that's why I asked.
I was gonna tell her to bring it home if you guys normally do. but I'll tell
her to throw it in outside bin since it seems normal.
Thank you!!

If you’re concerned about matters then the right thing to do would be to offer her a double bag and she can throw it away in the home. Then as the host, you dispose of the trash once she leaves. But I think you’re overthinking she’s a friend this is tiny and not even worth bringing up or getting upset about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is OP.
I didn't mean to offend people with kids or something like that.
I just don't know about the manners about kids that's why I asked.
I was gonna tell her to bring it home if you guys normally do. but I'll tell
her to throw it in outside bin since it seems normal.
Thank you!!

Your big plan was to tell her to take it home if that’s what is normally done, even though it clearly wasn’t normal for her? Lady you are a trip.

[Anonymous]

This is again a classic example of people bashing the OP just for the sake of doing so. Who puts a poopy diaper in a kitchen trash can in their own house, leave alone someone else’s?
Seriously?

[Anonymous]

I usually bag it and ask if I can throw it in their outdoor trash. If people with kids are over, I usually offer to throw it in my outdoor trash so they don’t have to carry it around with them

[Anonymous]

I think people are usually pretty polite about trying to dispose of diapers in a way that won’t bother their host (wrapping them up and keeping them, taking them outside etc). I wouldn’t assume ill intent if someone made the wrong move, though. Especially new moms are just learning how all of this is done. If this was a friend I would let it go this time and kindly offer an alternative preemptively next time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is OP.
I didn't mean to offend people with kids or something like that.
I just don't know about the manners about kids that's why I asked.
I was gonna tell her to bring it home if you guys normally do. but I'll tell
her to throw it in outside bin since it seems normal.
Thank you!!

Your big plan was to tell her to take it home if that’s what is normally done, even though it clearly wasn’t normal for her? Lady you are a trip.

Oh yes, and the people suggesting OP BUY A DIAPER GENIE just for her friend’s use aren’t a trip? GTFO.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is again a classic example of people bashing the OP just for the sake of doing so. Who puts a poopy diaper in a kitchen trash can in their own house, leave alone someone else’s?
Seriously?

I don’t really get though, if this is her friend, why she can’t just say to her “hey, will you put that in the outside trash?”. What’s the big deal?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I usually bag it and ask if I can throw it in their outdoor trash. If people with kids are over, I usually offer to throw it in my outdoor trash so they don’t have to carry it around with them

This. I just say this one is stinky where can I take it outside? I double bag them but even so it’s going to reek up a room.

[Anonymous]

It's a trash can, that's where trash goes. Your house is not a National Park; she doesn't have to pack in and pack out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is again a classic example of people bashing the OP just for the sake of doing so. Who puts a poopy diaper in a kitchen trash can in their own house, leave alone someone else’s?
Seriously?

I put them in the kitchen trash. Because I’m taking the trash out anyway. Daily. But I wouldn’t do that at someone else’s house. I’d take it outside.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is again a classic example of people bashing the OP just for the sake of doing so. Who puts a poopy diaper in a kitchen trash can in their own house, leave alone someone else’s?
Seriously?

Lots of people.