How long does it take your man to be ready for round 2?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH would take considerable time (hours to a day). He is 47 but has been like this since I met him when he was 35.

I knew someone who could release and move immediately into round 2 without stopping, even into his 50s. He was incredibly high drive and could release 4-5+ times per day.

So you're having an affair? Congratulations.

Apparently with my husband. Sigh.

4 times the night of our wedding. He still can do 2 a days at 50 rather frequently.

Like the other pp- incredibly high libido.

[Anonymous]

I'm 45 and on a good day, can go between 3-4 times. 2 times is normal, and only need about 4-5 minutes to go to round two. I was trying to train myself to continue on after the first and have been able to sometimes but it's just too sensitive.

[Anonymous]

Two days? He’s 38. He has been this way since he was about 26.

I have no complaints, ftr.

[Anonymous]

T age 48, I could go three times in three hours. At age 56 I needed anywhere from 2-6 hours to recharge.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For round 2 let him piiyb. He will have no problems

Oh frick.

I just realized what piiyb means due to the context of this thread and I saw that acronym in my teen's text.

Well, on the bright side, you're not likely to become a grandparent soon if that's what they're doing.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes he can within an hour, but it's never as good and I'd rather wait. It's usually better the next day. 2-3 days in a row and he needs a few days off or it's not very good again. Twice a week seems to be the sweet spot (1 time with a few days off then go again, or 1 time, 12-24 hour break, 2nd time, then several days break before it's great again). If we try too soon he either won't last or can't finish. Mid 40s.

[Anonymous]

The last guy I was with was 30 and he could never fully come to attention after the first round without a long break between. It didn't matter if he finished or didn't finish during round 1, he needed a couple of hours to recover.

I'm Bi with a strong preference for women. He was the first guy I had dated since graduating college and the lack of performance on his part was one of the reasons we broke up.

My wife can go for 3 or 4 rounds, which is exactly what satisfies my drive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It depends on the individual, OP. Contrary to popular belief, men live in bodies that are not machines and are subject to all kinds of blips. Not being able to get an immediate response after an hour postcoital isn’t necessarily a sign of ED. He may have been tired, stressed, may have climaxed earlier In the day as “prep”, or a million other things. A quick attempt at a BJ may or may not have done the job, but a nice bath and a snack, or session where he was allowed to slowly please you manually or orally may have. And in any case, there a million things that can be done even in absence of an erection.

+1 In my 20s, I had a 25 yo BF who could only do it once a night. In his 30s, my DH could go back to back after about 20 minutes. In his 50s, my DH has ED that is non-responsive to treatment so, as the PP says, we do other things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For round 2 let him piiyb. He will have no problems

Oh frick.

I just realized what piiyb means due to the context of this thread and I saw that acronym in my teen's text.

Well, on the bright side, you're not likely to become a grandparent soon if that's what they're doing.

It doesn't have to be a sexual reference.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'll keep this PG. I'm just curious. I started dating a new guy (we're both 40) and about an hour after round 1, I was ready to go for round 2 and even went down on him and nothing happened.

Is this normal?

No. Run.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'll keep this PG. I'm just curious. I started dating a new guy (we're both 40) and about an hour after round 1, I was ready to go for round 2 and even went down on him and nothing happened.

Is this normal?

Could it be you, though?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If I get a full release the first time, I have no interest in a round two until the next day

How do you modulate your release? Very weird, but also impressive, I suppose.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm 45 and on a good day, can go between 3-4 times. 2 times is normal, and only need about 4-5 minutes to go to round two. I was trying to train myself to continue on after the first and have been able to sometimes but it's just too sensitive.

I do hope you might start a new thread on “Training Myself.” All of DCUM, I suspect, would enjoy hearing about your training routine! You just made my evening.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes he can within an hour, but it's never as good and I'd rather wait. It's usually better the next day. 2-3 days in a row and he needs a few days off or it's not very good again. Twice a week seems to be the sweet spot (1 time with a few days off then go again, or 1 time, 12-24 hour break, 2nd time, then several days break before it's great again). If we try too soon he either won't last or can't finish. Mid 40s.

This guys sounds like a relief pitcher, he’s so finicky. You probably need more performance metrics than MLB teams.

[Anonymous]

42M. An hour is a good break. If we try in 15-30 minutes I can get it up, but it doesn’t feel as good. Of course, the reality is that the attempts at this are few and very far between. She does not have a high libido.