It depends on the individual, OP. Contrary to popular belief, men live in bodies that are not machines and are subject to all kinds of blips. Not being able to get an immediate response after an hour postcoital isn’t necessarily a sign of ED. He may have been tired, stressed, may have climaxed earlier In the day as “prep”, or a million other things. A quick attempt at a BJ may or may not have done the job, but a nice bath and a snack, or session where he was allowed to slowly please you manually or orally may have. And in any case, there a million things that can be done even in absence of an erection.
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Sorry what? |
Oh frick. I just realized what piiyb means due to the context of this thread and I saw that acronym in my teen's text. ![]() ![]() |
Put it in your... now think of what body party starts w/ a b. |
Now at age 45, I could probably get it up an hour later but no big desire that fast. Would take a few hours. At age 40, somewhat the same, a half day later I would be up for it again, and definitely every day.
This all seems within the range of normal. |
Female 45 here; my recent experiences:
46 could go twice within a few hours but usually did not come 2nd time 42 would come super quick but could go and come again within the hour |
+1 DH would ideally like 3-5 rounds a night. |
So you're having an affair? Congratulations. |
Omg how do you cope with that |
If I'm not ready when she wants more, I just go down until she Os again. That act always does the trick for me and then I'm ready to go again. He shouldn't just stop pleasing you because he's not ready to go.
Also, ED is not being able to get it up in the first place. Not a second time. Viagra works miracles for both. |
I had boyfriends like this through my 30s. You could hang a coat off those erections. Maybe even a heavy bag. |
You can't push a limp noodle into a tight place like that. Butt, I get what you're saying. It may go a long way to help achieve the needed result. |
“Liking” has nothing to do with the physiological ability to. This guy may have well liked to. In any case, OP, if he was a generous lover and made sure you were taken care of the second time, then I see nothing to worry about here. |
About a week. |
I said ideally. I didn’t say we do this every night, though we frequently do. I enjoy it, he enjoys it, nothing to not enjoy. |