What does your DH do for V Day?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We do nothing, but neither of us has expectations either. Works for us.

Same

[Anonymous]

Asked me if I wanted to order takeout instead of cooking.

[Anonymous]

What do you do for you husband? You sound very childish and entitled.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: I feel you OP. My ex never did anything special for my birthday. Even when I flat out told him it hurt my feelings. I would always buy him gifts from me and kids and bake a cake for his birthday. Some men are not brought up right.

Has nothing to do with upbringing because there is no right or wrong here. Different couples are going to want different things.

[Anonymous]

I got my wife a diet coke & peanut M&Ms. Also, I cooked dinner -- but that had less to do with Valentine's Day and more to do with how our afternoon schedules worked out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We do nothing, but neither of us has expectations either. Works for us.

Same

+1 We do absolutely nothing. Neither of us cares. We've been married 25+ years.

[Anonymous]

We do nothing. Married for 20 years.

[Anonymous]

These special days including my Bday, anniversary etc are kinky sex days for us. She let me do anal with her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:These special days including my Bday, anniversary etc are kinky sex days for us. She let me do anal with her.

Damn…I’m jealous. Enjoy it for the rest of us.

[Anonymous]

Roses delivered on Saturday (I loved having them early), dinner delivered yesterday and money transferred into my separate account (we have a joint account and each have our "fun" accounts--both names on all accounts but you get the idea) to do with what I please.

When we were first married he did far less and I was honest that it hurt my feelings. We've learned to share our feelings honestly and to do our best to act on what the other one would like.

[Anonymous]

Nice earrings I wanted, flowers (though he gets me those at least love a week), card, made me sushi, and bought some really nice lingerie for upcoming weekend away.

[Anonymous]

Me.

[Anonymous]

I really hate the sexpectations. The men who are so pleased that they get anal, the women who proudly offer a special BJ.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I really hate the sexpectations. The men who are so pleased that they get anal, the women who proudly offer a special BJ.

It does suck, but what sucks more is that said acts are only reserved for special occasions. If you know your partner likes something (and you also like it enough to do it) why treat it like a gift? Sex is not a gift and is a cop out. But like many married men, they’ll happily take what they can get.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Me.

Nice.