Catholicism doesn't have "members" and there's no requirement to give under the tenets of that faith. Maybe try knowing a little about which you speak. That said... I think the whole thing is a little silly. If infants can have baptism by desire, than surely that can "count" as well for those who clearly desired and truly thought they were validly baptised. My guess is this will be very easy to fix for those who care, and a funny story at happy hour for those who don't. |
No civil court would have jurisdiction to entertain such a frivolous case. |
“Baptism by desire” goes beyond the purely objective ruling made by the diocese under Vatican guidance in this case. The persons involved may well be subjectively validly baptized, but the Church in cases such as this deals in objective matters. |
Adding: you don’t know a damned thing about sacramental theology, do you? |
Our church requires you to be a member to receive sacraments. My friend died and they refused his funeral in Darnestown because he was “no longer a member”, but a Gaithersburg church agreed to do it. So yea, your not exactly correct about that “member” statement. |
Regardless what any given nitwit cleric, parish secretary or “bereavement coordinator” might think, a Roman Catholic is entitled to the pastoral care of the geographic parish in which they live. This is true whether or not they’ve ever “registered,” gotten an “envelope number,” or otherwise darkened the doorway of the place or contributed a nickel to its support and maintenance. Even a declared excommunication cannot deprive a Catholic of this right (although a funeral for such a person might involve some complications). If a parish denied your friend a Christian funeral on “lack of membership” grounds, this was a terrible disservice and uncharity, and might still be worth a complaint to the local bishop. |
Catholics can also baptize some one in an emergency. I know plenty of evangelical Lutherans who are loosey-goosey. Are you LCMS or WELS? If not, some of them will give you the side eye. |
Then take some water and baptize yourself. This realy doesn’t matter. Seems like a way just to invoke fear and get people to pay more money. |
There's lots in the Catholic church to make people uneasy, which may be part of the reason you left. |
You can't baptized yourself. |
As a former LCMS Lutheran, I can confirm that there are plenty of loosey-goosey LCMS parishes that don't follow the synod's rules. |
There is no tithing requirement, but the basket gets passed every week. My family used to receive little envelopes in the mail so the parish could keep track. If it was for “tax” purposes there was never a receipt. If the collections fell short, the parish school would charge you more tuition. So I do think I know what I’m talking about. Never saw any folks off the street come in to put money in that basket. |
+1 Cradle Catholic here, and I think the diocese is nuts. Sacraments aren't magic spells. If you think that God withheld baptismal grace because a priest used the wrong pronoun, well, your God is small and petty and circumscribed. Much like you, with your nasty, unkind, mean-spirited words about a person who obviously meant well. So many people who care so very much about whether the table is perfectly set, and not at all about what food is being served, and whether all feel welcome to partake of the bounty. Also, it's kind of like the flip side of quid mus sumit. Which I learned meant, basically, God will figure it out. Do you trust that, or no? |
One year, in a parish my family belonged to when I was a kid, at the end of the year, they published the amount people had given in those little envelopes. Parishioners were outraged, including my mother, who didn't even know she had separate envelopes from my Dad. He gave a respectable amount, while she apparently gave $5 or something. |
Then have someone else do it. So you really believe that you won’t get into heave because of this “invalid” baptism? Do you think babies who die in child ord go straight to hell? |