| Interviews and auditions. Plus there was a pandemic so a lot of kids just couldn’t go see the schools they were interested…and now they can. |
My kid's applications are done and he's been accepted to 7 colleges and is waiting to hear from 4 others. Later, he'll shadow a student for a day at the top 2 or 3 he's most interested in. |
My kid's gotten extra merit aid for visiting. |
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| When people post pictures of themselves touring schools, they're making it their FB friends' business. |
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Why are parents (ok, moms) posting pics of their students visiting colleges?
-Not on social media because this type of narcissism annoys me. |
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"who says they haven't heard from the schools? My kid applied to nine schools, and she's already heard back from 5."
Who says this? The moms who post the pictures of their cross country adventures. Two of them wrote clarification posts because they were getting congratulated by people who were following along on their trip. Lots of people, not just me, thought that if they were flying all the way to a school at this point, that meant they'd been admitted and wanted more info before deciding whether to enroll there. My kids would kill me if I told everyone on Facebook where they were applying, especially for their reach schools. The last thing they want is Aunt Amy assuming that they got into a school that rejected them and then bringing it up over the holidays. |
Why not? People post pics of their pets and their food and their vacations. What’s the difference? |
| Maybe because your young adult isn't a pet nor a tasty gourmet meal? If the kid wants to put it on social media, that's one thing. But the mom shouldn't. |
+1. If I’d posted on social media like this (especially schools I might have been interested in but didn’t get in), my kid would be very irritated. This is about them and what they need; it’s not about the parent. |
| Potential ED 2 schools |
| Everything that everybody says above, plus, with COVID, this year's seniors did not do many visits during their Junior year. |