Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Guy here, and maybe this is cocky, but I think I was a good catch -- well educated, good job, etc. It just hit me at some point that I wanted to settle down. Not even start a family necessarily. But I was hanging out with friends who were married, and it seemed really nice to have a partner in life like that. And it is!
So many relationships are 50% timing. I could have met my wife at 22, and I wouldn't have married her.
Another guy here and this is it. He probably wasn't ready to settle down before. It's more about timing for men with options than actually finding the one.