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Watch this video. Washington Latin kids are spirited, urban, whip smart, irreverent and they really love each other. These original students show the hardscrabble spirit of the original, unique, crazy, loving community. These kids today made an unfortunate mistake. You can learn a lesson when people show you mercy. It's actually possible. If you can't extend them mercy you should not expect the same for yourself or your kids down the line when you make a mistake. And WL can from a caring place to hard knocks academy. That's on you.
http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=on+the+boat+washington+latin+youtube&view=detail&mid=41A4DF96D5369F91AB1F41A4DF96D5369F91AB1F&FORM=VIRE11 |
I wonder how the victim of this prank feels about how hard the WL boosters are pushing how much Latin kids "really love each other." I'm guessing that's salt in the wound. |
Have some perspective. If Washington Latin's founder, TR Ahlstrom, were still school headmaster, these students likely would have been tarred and feathered and then burned at the stake. |
| I'm not a booster. I'm a detractor. I think WL stepped completely outside of how to handle things appropriately. None of us know how the victim of the prank feels, but we all feel terribly for him/her. That being said--my child has been in terrible experiences with kids at school and we talked it out, problem solved, etc. because we are caring proactive people who understand that part of being a kid is sometimes you f' up. What planet do you live on where people are 'disappeared"? Is that how you deal with problems in you life? Is this Soviet Russia? Should we erase them from photos too? Expulsion is not the only way for the school to telegraph a message that they take a problem seriously, or schools would not have students. Are you even a WL parent/family? I don't actually get the sense that you 'get' the school at all. You sound very outside looking in, following some one size fits all script. |
Not quite. the kids had QUITE a bit of fun with him - I know, my kid was there. He was there for two years, and this was immediately after. Listen, WL has always been a quirky little place that succeeds in spite of itself. As you go super corporate, you may gain your sense of regulation and predictability, but you also may lose the magic. |
| It's done. I applaud Martha Cutts for acting decisively and sending a strong deterrent message to the students. |
You get what you wish for. Soon your kid will be sitting in the principal's office getting that same "strong deterrent message". Don't think so? You don't know teens. Start picking up the literature on in-bounds schools, or trailing your child every minute physically and on social media. Have fun, compassionate one. |
So I guess you were booing Martha Cutts when a senior did something illegal at the school and was not expelled? |
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Issues. Therapy stat |
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But seriously. There is no indication that WL DIDN'T deliberate seriously, use their discretion and then arrive at a decision you don't agree with ( expulsion ) and then do everything in their power to support the students afterwards. You seem to be saying that:
Decision to expel students = sticking to the letter of the handbook/ showing no mercy / not using past experience That's not known. You have NO IDEA what went on in the deliberations over consequences. You have NO IDEA what was said to the students and their families. WL could have used every bit of discretion and personal knowledge of the students and STILL arrived at a decision you disagree with. Perhaps they are using personal connections throughout the city and colleges to make a soft landing for the students. Maybe not. You and I have NO IDEA Of course you can disagree with the decision and say you, in the same place, would have arrived at a different one. But it is not appropriate to arrive at a conclusion that "the school has changed" or "become zero-tolerance". You'd need more evidence for that. Get it? |
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Actually, it is known that it is the most extreme reaction they could have taken . That is known.
Whether they are helping now - you're right, that is not known. Lastly, how much help can a busy WL administrator give? Be serious. These kids will deal with the repercussions on their own for a long long time. But if you want to look at it through rose colored glasses , ok. I am just saying when your child goofs I'm betting you are the first pleading for more time and thought and mercy. Who wouldn't for their kid if something like expulsion was on the line? |
As a current WL parent, I too will watch more closely to make sure and point out if there are double standards displayed, and no second chances. |
Exactly! |