The fact that you equate what I said with “brown nosing” proves a PP’s point that you lack emotional EQ… |
Not sure where you see someone accusing that PP of lacking "emotional EQ" but fyi there are multiple people posting here and not identifying themselves as PPs |
Effective brown nosing definitely does require emotional EQ, so congrats for that I guess. If you don't think the specifics of what you do constitutes brown nosing, please feel free to explain why to those of us who apparently lack the emotional EQ. Just make sure to use a reasonable definition of what brown nosing entails. |
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wow this thread is no fun.
I thought this thread is about how Ivy kids learn to socialize with high achievers and thereby leave the rest of us in the dust! I guess we must not all be fun-loving get-along Ivy parents. |
I’m more curious to hear your definition of brown nosing. And whether you have any friends. To me, brown nosing means sucking up. Friendly relationships that benefit both parties do not require sucking up - just professionalism, competence, and respect. |
Ha ha...I also read it and thought hmmm...reads like some Ivy economists were edged out of an award or some recognition by a "state university" economists so they wrote a paper to justify their value - to their employers, industry and themselves. |
DP I think when people say merit in the academic context, they mean academic merit or sometimes mere IQ. They usually don't think it includes skin color or where your parents went to school. |
I'll always remember an admissions interview for a grad program at one of the "new Ivy" schools. When I told the admissions officer I had no undergraduate debt, she visibly perked up. Suddenly I became a bunch of dollar signs to her. No shock I got an admissions offer with no aid. |
I don't know how things are in India but Korea is pretty merit driven. We recently impeached and removed a sitting president in part for using her influence to get a friend's daughter into a top women's college. You can pretty much predict which school you will go to based on your test score. |
Test scores are definitely changing who they are admitting. |
Your criticism want that these kids had successful careers (that would be a very strange criticism). Your criticism was that their success was at the expense of our environment and society. |
More like the test optional. |
Only at the margins which means they are still admitting who they want to admit. There will never be a system in the US where top schools admit by exam. It completely goes against their ethos. |
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I subscribe to the Atlantic, and love many of their pieces but this is essentially an opinion piece where the author mentions many potential hypothesis that aren't definitively backed up in a meaningful way. There is some discussion of data but the relationship to that data and interpretation is a stretch IMO.
So many unbacked assumptions that seem very questionable but are stated as if they have been proven or clear. |
dp... I'm Korean American. I think the Korean system isn't great either, but it largely works there because there has been no system racism in Korea, so they don't really need DEI for college admissions, whereas in the US, elite universities were only for WASPs for over a hundred years, up until the 1960s. White legacies are still the majority at elite colleges. Even so, the workplace for women is awful in Koreao, and it doesn't matter whether the woman went to a SKY uni. But, yes, to the impeachment of the president. Wish we did that here. |