So what did you really mean to say? |
It’s not [Facetious] it’s a totally legitimate comparison [between mythical beings there is little evidence of existence like leprechauns and gods] |
What?? and who are you? -- you don't sound like the religious pp who was asked: "So what did you really mean to say?" |
Are you missing some punctuation? |
Because I am not the religious PP and said the opposite, but left out the parenthetical parts and shouldn't have because the conversation gets truncated in this forum. But I am the one you asked. Note the second "it's" in my original which said "it’s a totally legitimate comparison". Problem is I voice dictated this to my phone so that being said in conversation would be more sensible than it looks written. A comma would have helped immensely. |
ITA |
OK |
I think it (deconversion) can happen both ways and that radicalization need not be a part of it. |
How about "my Mommy and Daddy in the sky" for kids? |
I try as much as possible to just not use pronouns for God at all, since God is beyond gender. It's easier to do in writing than it is when speaking though. He/him pronouns for God are just so ingrained in the way I speak and I often speak faster than I can think to correct it in the moment. I do think that there can be instances where attributing certain pronouns to God can provide helpful context for how we're speaking about God in a given situation. Like, if I'm talking about God as a nurturing, life-giving God, using she/her could help underscore that characterization. I also like that she/her pronouns make people pause and consider that God doesn't actually have a gender, even if they usually think of God as he/him. |
My kids would tell you that God is everywhere, not just in the sky. |
When I was young and was told that God is my Father, my hackles rose. My reaction was more or less, "I have a father already, thank you very much." It was the start of a long line of dominoes that led me to become agnostic. As an adult, however, I understand that God as "Father" is more of a metaphor. Partially, my black-and-white, underdeveloped child-mind didn't know how to understand metaphor. And partially, the adults in my religion didn't think to explain it. |
I also learned that God is everywhere, but still recited the Lord's Prayer, saying "Our Father, who art in Heaven" - Do your kids? |
Trying to be reasonable but also reductive, believing in any religion is irrational. |
"Respectful" seems to be a matter of opinion. What's truthful can seem disrespectful to someone who adamantly believes it or is used to hearing it in a certain way. e.g., How does Jesus breathe in heaven where we now know there is no oxygen, and why is sky daddy disrespectful when both sky and daddy are commonly used terms, and God the Father supposedly lives in heaven. |