Missing Manassas Park woman - Mamta Kafle Bhatt

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nadia isn't even going to the Gatherings for Mamta. Today she says:

"yes, I haven’t gone either because I don’t want to be filmed crying"

What a joke. If she was really your friend you wouldn't care if you were, potentially, filmed crying. Bring tissues, wear a hat, bury your face in a friend.

Probably because the gatherings are being organized by the Nepalese community, who Miss Nadia seems to be on the outs with for whatever reason.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nadia isn't even going to the Gatherings for Mamta. Today she says:

"yes, I haven’t gone either because I don’t want to be filmed crying"

What a joke. If she was really your friend you wouldn't care if you were, potentially, filmed crying. Bring tissues, wear a hat, bury your face in a friend.

Probably because the gatherings are being organized by the Nepalese community, who Miss Nadia seems to be on the outs with for whatever reason.

Because she’s making it all about herself! I hope they find the body soon to give closure to the family

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a feeling that Mamta’s blood family may be abusive too. That’s why she so easily fell victim to her abusive husband. If she had family to lean on it wouldn’t have happened.
The child might actually be doing best if she is with that friend, not family (and in the U.S. and not Nepal).

To add, I have no skin in the game and am a complete stranger to them. I just know the pattern of abusive families and what Nadia is writing is very believable.

Her family is from Nepal, uneducated and living in a village. What exactly did you think they could do from there? Do you really think their daughter was telling them what was going on? DV is real. Mamta was a victim and victims have a difficult time leaving because they feel trapped or threatened by their abuser and they usually hide the truth from their families. Add to that, the complexity that she had no family here. If a person who is suffering domestic abuse says her friends and family that her husband is apologetic and she wants to give him a chance, I think it is difficult for them to go and report the social services behind her back when she is trying to make relationship work. Also looking at Mamta’s fb profile, she doesn’t seem like a person who would show her pain and difficulties to others. She always looked bubbly, happy and celebrating. She has many posts and videos where shes talking about her husband being the most loving and best person ever. Now, after almost a month, connecting dots and pieces, people know the extent if the abuse she endured. May be her friends and family only knew some bits and pieces but not fully aware of the situation. And I can only imagine the suffering of her parents who havent even found the body of their daughter. Knowing about them from these posts, it seems like they won’t be able to come here, read these posts written in english and defend themselves or say their truth. Therefore, I think the focus should be on finding mamta, getting justice for her and advocating for other women who are being abused to come forward and take steps to come out of the situation rather than indirectly blaming the family and friends again and again for their inaction, adding to their grief and guilt.

And I can only imagine the suffering of her parents who havent even found the body of their daughter. Knowing about them from these posts, it seems like they won’t be able to come here, read these posts written in english and defend themselves or say their truth. Therefore, I think the focus should be on finding mamta, getting justice for her and advocating for other women who are being abused to come forward and take steps to come out of the situation rather than indirectly blaming the family and friends again and again for their inaction, adding to their grief and guilt.


+100

[Anonymous]

https://www.fox5dc.com/news/search-mamta-kafle-bhatt-police-shut-down-virginia-park-look-her-body?utm_campaign=trueanthem&utm_medium=trueanthem&utm_source=facebook&fbclid=IwY2xjawE_GkVleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHf9Erv9GYWkTfGhPhzdZeHLKPTj4f3NtErU6qhf5APMs9PW-RqSjd43hpA_aem_Jm_l-eyEWTNXP6dKpDqhiQ

[Anonymous]

Does she post here? This is a lot of weirdness and drama about a friend.

[Anonymous]

^^^

Police searching Signal Hill Park

[Anonymous]

Footage of the search earlier this evening

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e59VGRCmiQI

[Anonymous]

Statement released from Matma's friend Holly:
“I did speak to one of the detectives, Mr. Loving. He did want me to assure you that they are investigating this to the fullest extent. They did do a search, as we saw, at Signal Hill Park. That search has now ended. They have released the park back to the public. They are hopeful that they have collected some evidence, but it’s going to take time to process, and so please trust the fact that they are working on this case day and night. We trust the process, but we do know that any time evidence is collected, it has to go then [to be] analyzed for forensic. So nothing determined tonight, but I do feel confident to say that they are going places. They’re being led to places, and this will likely be fruitful and more to come when they can share more."

[Anonymous]

The hospital she worked in needs a training overhaul. I can’t believe she worked in a women’s unit, went to work with bruises with explanations like “I fell” and no one was suspicious or offered her professional help.“Do you feel safe at home?” is a standard intake question for crying out loud.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The hospital she worked in needs a training overhaul. I can’t believe she worked in a women’s unit, went to work with bruises with explanations like “I fell” and no one was suspicious or offered her professional help.“Do you feel safe at home?” is a standard intake question for crying out loud.

+10000

I totally understand there is often limited ability to intervene in this type of situation.

But it really rubs me the wrong way that everyone and their mother seems to be coming out of the woodwork now saying they knew all this was happening, they saw bruises, they knew he took her phone / papers / etc. yet seemingly did nothing about it. If I had a friend who told me this I would at least call the police, even if there was nothing the police could do.

[Anonymous]

It is truly fascinating to me that there are multiple groups on Facebook with thousands of members trying to help with this case… but people are all eerily silent in the Herndon au Pair murder case.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is truly fascinating to me that there are multiple groups on Facebook with thousands of members trying to help with this case… but people are all eerily silent in the Herndon au Pair murder case.

I guess you haven't seen the DCUM thread about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is truly fascinating to me that there are multiple groups on Facebook with thousands of members trying to help with this case… but people are all eerily silent in the Herndon au Pair murder case.

What’s this one about?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is truly fascinating to me that there are multiple groups on Facebook with thousands of members trying to help with this case… but people are all eerily silent in the Herndon au Pair murder case.

There was a massive long thread about it. No one is silent - it’s just an old case with no new updates.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It is truly fascinating to me that there are multiple groups on Facebook with thousands of members trying to help with this case… but people are all eerily silent in the Herndon au Pair murder case.

There was a massive long thread about it. No one is silent - it’s just an old case with no new updates.

Here it is. Massive thread.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1159167.page