YOU communicate. For which I’m sure many parents are appreciative. However many teachers do not, for which many parents are not appreciative and frankly frustrated. I would advise over communication vs none. From over communication parties can come together to find a reasonable amount of communication for everyone and then those needing more information can reach out. However, when there is none, and parents are reaching out and being expected to follow the idea that no news is good news. No, no news is no news. |
Sounds like you all have been spoiled from having nannies and daycares tell you about every meal and poop/pee. If the teachers spend time updating you about everything, they will never have time to lesson plan/grade, etc. |
Exactly - some of them have over 100 students each semester. The expectations are insane. |
No one is expecting a daily message from a teacher about every little thing their kid is doing. They do however want a weekly message in ES, especially K-2 about what the class is doing. They do want parent teacher conferences to meaningfully explain what the teacher is seeing in the student in their classroom and they do want them twice a year. They do want comments on the report card in MS. They do want someone to explain the schools traditions and activities and not assume that every new parent or student just miraculously knows. They do want to see evidence of the entire writing process from first draft through final production and see feedback from teachers. But okay, we’ll act like parents are spoiled, and then be surprised when they send their kids to private or outside enrichment or worse stay in public and stop engaging. |
Parent Teacher Conferences, for my 4 departmentalized ES math classes comprises of 80 kids and 15 minutes teach. That is 20 hours of time When I taught MS math, my report card comments took about 5 minutes per kid. Not bad until you rememebr we have 150 kids. Thats 6.5 hours of time, 4 times per year (26 total hours) From just two communication tasks you named, that is 46 work hours, or more than 1 week of work unpaid. Now add in all the other unpaid tasks we do and ask yourself again why we let things slip or just quit. My school has 20 staff members out today. A teacher quit two days ago. We're just trying to hold on |
You needed the 100 days of school celebration… explained to you? That tradition has been going on all over the country since like the 50s. Welcome to planet earth? |
Nope, grew up in the area, was a kindergartner roughly 35 years ago, this was NOT a thing. Additionally, we have a lot of parents not familiar with American instagram culture. Everything does not revolve around your version of planet earth. |
Also, of course they determine the level of involvment. That is part of their responsibility as a professsional. If I am working at a pizza shop, I'll let you pick your toppings but you can't come back and make the dough and spread out the sauce and cheese. What you mean to say is you want more involvement, which even you acknowledge would be an excessive burden on teachers. |
If you could read, I said country. So not only was it a county thing, everyone, everywhere all over the country has done it forever. Once again, just because you didn’t experience it, doesn’t mean it’s not common knowledge to practically anyone who has ever existed. Your worldview is so narrow. This is not surprising in the least. |
What are you even talking about? Lay off the booze at lunch. |
And the DC area is not a part of the country? You’re just wrong, and now you won’t admit it. And nice of you to ignore that not all parents grew up here themselves. But screw them right? |
From PP "I’m an easy going parent. I understand teachers are busy and respect the profession. However, I felt on more than one occasion like teachers want involvement but also want to be the ones that determine the level and type of involvement. Yes you should be trusted but at the same time you are a complete stranger to my child and definitely to me. My trust comes from the expectation that at any point I can reach out and expect a response. That when I feel like something is not right for my child we’ll partner together so we both have understanding and work towards the best result. While I understand you teacher are dealing with kids with bad behavior and no parental involvement, that problem should be raised loudly and consistently with Administrators, MCEA, and CO (everyday, multiple times a day if needed) until something is done. That doesn’t mean I nor my child should lower our expectations of quality educational service." This block is just full of contradictions, "I'm easy going but I expect a response any time I have an issue" "You should be trusted but I don't trust you" These are the exact parents that make us leave. The ones who will send the late night email saying "I know you're really busy but..." |
If you worked in education, you would know that it's tradition to celebrate the 100th day of school. It's just a thing schools do. You need to chill. |
I don’t even want that much. Just a return mail if there is an issue. I rarely email teachers. But feedback on ms assignments would be nice and not just a random grade which makes me wonder if you read it. |
In mcps we have never celebrated 100 days of school. |