Yes schools with better parents have better students who have better scores. You identify with the less successful group of parents, send your kids with the less successful kids but yet think your kids will buck the trend. Cheers to your optimism |
I understand we differ in that I prefer some meaningful metrics, while you are happy with meaningless metrics. |
You are again focusing on particular cases. Just because the students at the top of the class do very well, it doesn't mean that the school did a good job educating its student body. You care only about yourself, not about all the students attending your average high school. |
It looks like one of those "better parents" came by on DCUM to teach us how to identify with the better versions of ourselves. |
Buck what trend? That kids from educated middle class families will likely (all things considered) do very well at school, even when there happen to be other kids there who come from families that aren't doing so well? It might actually be good for kids to spend a little time with kids from different backgrounds. And test scores do not tell the whole story about schools. I wish people would stop pretending they do. It's so annoying to pick up one of those magazines named after a city, look at the article that says something like, "We rank all the high schools! Is yours in the top five?" And then look at the methodology they used only to find that it's just a ranking of test scores. Nothing more. |
I am all ears to learn about a better metric than test scores. |
It's heartwarming to think of all of those altruistic parents at Churchill and Whitman, unselfishly sending their children to school with lots of kids with high test scores, out of pure and self-sacrificing concern for the education of all of the students attending the school. |
The point is that a list of schools ranked by test scores is not the same as a list of schools from best to worst. There are many factors which don't lend themselves well to being measured. Not to mention that not all students will score high on a test. That could be as much due to the student's socioeconomic background as anything to do with the school. And that doesn't mean his schoolmate is going to do worse in school because of this. So yes, there are happy, healthy, thriving students in DCC whose parents do not wish they were in Potomac. Hard to believe, but true. |
25 year class reunion. I was shocked to see how many of the bad kids were enormously successful. And the handful that weren't probably failed due to lack of motivation or having kids very young instead of poor education. I spoke with the former school drug dealer. He has an ok job and a nice family. What impressed me the most is how wicked smart he is. Would he have done better at a different school? He said no, he would have just been dealing better drugs. My awful high school produced 9 business owners, 3 of them are large companies. We also have 10 attorneys, several middle managers and many in a trade. 7 are living and working internationally. Yes, there are some that didn't excel to DCUM standards, but I very strongly feel that a student will have the same success in school whether it be Whitman or Einstein. The difference is peer group which is very important. You want your kids surrounded by other kids that want the same in life. The drugs will be everywhere, the bullying is everywhere, and I am sure there are ample amount of kids in higher performing school's that aren't motivated. |
What would you call someone who makes more money, hence a better job, lives in a nicer area, has more successful kids and with higher test scores? Sounds like they did it better to me. This is when you fire back about how you are happy with what you have and you don’t want that type of success anyway. Or maybe like the previous poster who gloats about her and her husband looking better when the went to school with a bunch of average kids. Maybe some kids don’t have be surround with mediocrity to stand out? |
More money doesn't make you a better person or a better parent. And the previous poster was merely trying to make the valid and necessary point that one can do well for themselves at an average school even with (horrors) kids there from lower socioeconomic backgrounds. And no one said they are surrounded with mediocrity. The sneering, classist filth that some people spew on DCC truly disgusts me. |
I would call such a person "somebody who makes more money". But I wouldn't conflate having money with worth, though many people do. |
You know what, lady? Seriously just send your kid to Whitman and be happy and stop antagonizing all the people you don't believe could possibly be happy with their schools. May your children be kinder (but with such high test scores, of course). |
Bless you. I hope I know you in real life. |
Everything you said is nice, but it is not a metric that can be used to compare schools. Still waiting for a better metric... |