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I think it's hilarious that there's even a hierarchy within AAP. |
It is already, in several parts of the county. |
No, there's a hierarchy within some people's minds. Thinking your kid is better doesn't make it so. |
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My child has aged out of AAP; she is now in high school.
For her, the curriculum and the teachers provided her a way to grow intellectually, to explore the areas she is interested in in greater depth. Last spring I was helping out had her ES, and I was talking to her fifth grade teacher, who (three years later) went on and on with how expressive my daughter was in writing -- how thorough. Sure, she could have done that in Gen ED, assuming the questions were open ended, and not worksheets (I can not question that). What DD really liked was that less time was spent on review: the assumption was the children would get it. Now, she is taking all honors, and so far, her classes are all review, even Algebra II honors. BTW, the other advantage is the mean girls (in her case) were not in AAP and she does not have to interact with the worst offender (in the 6th grade, this girl offered DD's best friend $5 / week to stop being DD's friend). |
This is the complete opposite of my daughter's experience. She was in Gen Ed at a majority AAP school, and the clique of mean girls was in AAP. She had to deal with them in specials, at lunch, and at recess. My daughter was so glad to move onto middle school and out of that environment. |
Yours is the opposite of my daughter's experience. She was bullied at our base school by a group of "Mean Girls", and we started seeing a counselor as she developed a tic and had nightmares due to the experience. She went to the Center and she immediately found friends, and was so pleased to be away from the Mean Girls environment. Personally I think it varies from school to school and for each child. |
Nope. It is an incorrect assumption that ALL or even most Gen Ed students can handle the AAP pace. You know how many times I've heard parents of Gen Ed kids share that their child is in 4th/5th grade and still can't memorize multiplication tables? Or they can't get them to read books? These kids may be brilliant in other areas, but an advanced, more rigorous academic curriculum is not what these kids need. I always wonder how the anti AAP posters on DCUM claim that all the GE/AAP students are the same??? You have no idea what is in these kids files re: test scores, work samples, GBRS, etc. Yeah, they all look the same running around on the playground. A superior IQ isn't always going to obvious. Do you quiz Larlo's friends at playdates and made judgements about what academic levels are appropriate for them? Sure there is a big chunk on the border of qualifying, but the cut off has to be somewhere. |
That is very kind of you to speak for these children and it's fortunate that you know so much about them. They are really lucky to have you looking out for them. |
Exactly. PP scolds those of us who say (most) GE/AAP kids are the same, or at least similar enough to be in the same classes. But then she makes her sweeping judgment that a "rigorous academic curriculum" (AAP?) is not what those "other" kids need. Guess she knows all about "those" kids, but God forbid we suggest the same thing. The cutoff should be far higher; then most kids, probably including PP's, wouldn't qualify for what's supposed to be (but is not) a "gifted" program. |
Same here- at a local level IV with a lot of AAP kids- they were a handful to put it mildly. Parents were superficial and clique-y. It became apparent early on that to "fit in" you had to either be friends with the cliques or what they determined to be ok. I was ok for a long time but had a chance to move my kid to the center. Now we are mud- but I don't care. That local level IV was unhealthy and to boot academically inferior to the center. My child is happy there (me too but my child is the most important part). |
Mean Girls are everywhere. It's silly to suggest there are more in GenEd than AAP or vice versa, and their existence is pretty much irrelevant to an overall ass same thing of AAP's merits. |
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Son's friend was a national merit semifinalist who entered a prestigious state university with 45 AP credits. He had to drop micro biology and it took him four years to graduate, same as my "not a genius" son.
There's a lot of BS out there about so called "gifted" kids with stage parents. |
When Mean Girls are so mean that my kid is seeing a psychiatrist, I am pulling my kid out of the school, AAP or no AAP. |
I think the pp was referring to the kids struggling with math facts and reading, not all general ed kids. |