This. I wouldn't even be bitter that kids I KNEW got in who I would be surprised got in because I'd know that I would have no idea what their total file looked like. You're totally guessing that kids in the program are "virtually identical in ability" to your child. |
Then take her out. Or better yet, get off DCUM and homeschool. |
But you have no idea unless you live with the child and know their IQ, work samples, letters of recommendation, NNAT and CogAt scores. My kid is 2E and introverted and shy. No one who meets her is blown away by her. She's practically mute. Her GBRS in 3rd grade was low (8) because even her teacher was not impressed with her. She scored in the 140s on the NNAT and CogAT and we got her IQ tested when we did a neuropsych exam. She scored a 151. We didn't even believe it. Nothing about her screamed gifted at the time. Even now I KNOW there are people who wonder why she was admitted to AAP, but you know who doesn't wonder, her AAP teachers and us now that we see the level of work she is capable of handling. We had a Woodcock Johnson abilities test done on her and she scored several grades above 3rd grade. Again, we had no idea because she was so quiet and never really ask to be pushed or showed she needed to be pushed. She's in 5th grade now. Been at a center for 2 years and she is doing great and even come out of her shell a tiny bit. Her teachers rave about her work but still comment on her needing to self advocate more and participate more, but if someone saw her and then looked at their precocious little star, they'd think, "they let her in and not my Larla? They let everyone in who isn't even gifted." She's probably the kid 1/2 of you think doesn't belong. |
NP here. No. She sounds like a kid I'd expect to be in a gifted program. Quietly brilliant. Not a people-pleasing above average child whose parents brag about how she has all 4's on her second grade report card and still get her tutors to keep up with AAP work that would be a breeze to a child like yours. |
Nailed it. This description sums up most of the kids in AAP at our center school. |
Oh dear Lord...again the ridiculous overexaggertion. Our center is our base so we've been there for 6 years. How can YOU know that most AAP kids at your center are tutored? I know of literally zero. |
PP here - my only point about my DD was that I don't think people know that. They just see this average seeming, quiet kid. Nothing special. Not a stand out. Without me sharing her numbers (which I never do except here anonymously). I'm sure there are people who question how she got in. They'd assume she's not that bright. How can she be, she barely forms a sentence to speak to them and she's 10 years old. I remember the week before 3rd and the looks I got when people would ask me who her 3rd grade teacher was and I'd mention she's at the center. It was looks of surprise. |
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AAP mom here.
If an aap kid need a tutor, he shouldn't be in aap. If an honor kid needs a tutor, she shouldn't be in honors. |
Well, let's see. Our center is also our base, so we've also been there for 6 years. We've known most of these kids since kindergarten, and therefore their parents too. Many of the parents talk quite openly about tutors, sharing names, etc. It's not much of a secret.
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Uh, no. The reason AAP is such a target is because ALL taxpayers are funding this program, but unlike Special Ed, most kids admitted to AAP are not gifted and don't need special services. No one is arguing that we need to do away with programs like Special Ed - obviously, there's a tremendous need for those kids to receive services. Taxpayers are happy to help. What we're not happy to do, however, is spend money on frivolous programs for enormous groups of mostly average kids who don't need special intervention at all. In fact, that "enrichment" we're paying for could easily benefit ALL kids, but isn't. If calling inequity "jealousy" makes you feel better, then so be it. But as long as we're all footing the bill for your kid's extra (and unnecessary) enrichment, expect some push back by those of us who realize this is a PUBLIC school system, not an exclusive private school within a school for some but not all.
oh well! Get over it, it's not going anywhere. Thank God! Glad you're appreciative of my tax dollars benefitting your child. NP here - Oh please...if your child was in it, you'd not say a peep. And if your child wasn't, but was virtually identical in ability to those who were, you'd be singing a different tune. But you have no idea unless you live with the child and know their IQ, work samples, letters of recommendation, NNAT and CogAt scores. My kid is 2E and introverted and shy. No one who meets her is blown away by her. She's practically mute. Her GBRS in 3rd grade was low (8) because even her teacher was not impressed with her. She scored in the 140s on the NNAT and CogAT and we got her IQ tested when we did a neuropsych exam. She scored a 151. We didn't even believe it. Nothing about her screamed gifted at the time. Even now I KNOW there are people who wonder why she was admitted to AAP, but you know who doesn't wonder, her AAP teachers and us now that we see the level of work she is capable of handling. We had a Woodcock Johnson abilities test done on her and she scored several grades above 3rd grade. Again, we had no idea because she was so quiet and never really ask to be pushed or showed she needed to be pushed. She's in 5th grade now. Been at a center for 2 years and she is doing great and even come out of her shell a tiny bit. Her teachers rave about her work but still comment on her needing to self advocate more and participate more, but if someone saw her and then looked at their precocious little star, they'd think, "they let her in and not my Larla? They let everyone in who isn't even gifted." She's probably the kid 1/2 of you think doesn't belong. NP here. No. She sounds like a kid I'd expect to be in a gifted program. Quietly brilliant. Not a people-pleasing above average child whose parents brag about how she has all 4's on her second grade report card and still get her tutors to keep up with AAP work that would be a breeze to a child like yours. Nailed it. This description sums up most of the kids in AAP at our center school. Oh dear Lord...again the ridiculous overexaggertion. Our center is our base so we've been there for 6 years. How can YOU know that most AAP kids at your center are tutored? I know of literally zero. Well, let's see. Our center is also our base, so we've also been there for 6 years. We've known most of these kids since kindergarten, and therefore their parents too. Many of the parents talk quite openly about tutors, sharing names, etc. It's not much of a secret.
You actually said "most" not "many" have tutors. Still a lie. Name of school, please. Let me guess...you won't say. |
| My AAP kid is 2E and needs a writing tutor. His IQ is 146. Even though you think he doesn't belong there, I'll keep him in AAP, thanks! |
Why? If a child has a tutor to make sure s/he is living up to his/her potential and reinforcing material learned in school why is that wrong? I don't get why "AAP mom" would care what another person's child does during non school hours. I suppose you could answer that it is holding back your "gifted" child if the teacher needs to slow down, but, again, AAP is NOT a gifted program and there is no rule that AAP is limited to kids who don't need reinforcement at home. |
Because this woman said so, that's why. Essentially the bar for admissions seems to be set at whatever level each poster's kid(s) are at. So, for example, if poster A's kid was in the pool with a 140 on the CogAT, that poster will say that the cut off should be a 140 on the CogAT and no other way for admission. If poster B's kid has low group test scores from the school but an FSIQ of 132, then that poster will say that is the cut off. This woman's kids don't need tutors and therefore her bar is set so that other kids shouldn't need tutors. I'm speaking as a mom who has both kids in AAP, none have ever used tutors, but think it is ridiculous how parents look down on kids who are, in their opinion, beneath their kids' abilities because it (fill in the answer of your choice): a. Waters down the program b. Dumbs down the curriculum c. Makes their kid wait until your kid catches up d. Has their kid essentially teaching the other kids in the class e. Makes their kid Claim he is bored f. Results in their kid learning nothing all year (aka it was a "wasted year") g. Makes it no longer a gifted program, which is really what their kid NEEDS to "thrive" in school |
| BRAVO, 14:56!!! |
+100 My kids are in AAP and honestly it's a crying shame that FCPS doesn't use the AAP curriculum as a standard way of teaching. This program should be available to ALL kids. |