Name-dropping, of course, is important to yours. Regarding staying in contact with college friends - you sound as though it is specific to top schools. News flash - people make friends everywhere. |
This is an interesting statement. Our son is not at a college that anyone in the family or any friend has ever attended. It is also not in the local region of our home. So I guess we are in the 2%?? We never had the expectation that he would go to one of our alma maters or follow anyone else. He picked his school based on what he wanted out of a school. I would be interested in knowing if we are "odd" in this respect or if others on this forum picked schools based on the merits of the school itself and not on its regional location or on the fact that family/friends had gone there. BTW he chose a school that none of us had ever heard of before. Amazing, huh?
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This page has some stats from the Chronicle of Higher Ed on the % of students in each state attending their own states' schools. For VA it is 74%. Most of the states are over 50%. I would guess that if you add in neighboring states (VA kids going to North Carolina or MD) you'd increase a lot from that 74%. It also notes that a survey found only 15% of freshmen attend a college more than 500 miles from home. So yes, your child is the minority in going to another region for college. http://www.thecollegesolution.com/where-most-students-end-up-attending-college/ My kids aren't in college yet but I did attend a public university in my own state, one usually ranked among the top "regional" universities in my area. I had a great experience there and the cost was very reasonable so I graduated with no debt. I was introduced to it by my dad, who liked to recruit new grads from there, and I liked the relatively small size, focus on undergrad educations vs. graduate teaching/research, the location, and strong internship program. I've had a great career - and no trouble getting into and doing well in grad school - and don't feel I was in any way hindered by not spending a crapload of money on an Ivy league degree (I was accepted at U of Penn). We live in VA and my kids know that we will pay for 4 years at a VA state college. If they want to go somewhere else that would require them to go into debt then we'll have to talk seriously about how much debt and what benefits they think they'd gain from that and if it is really worthwhile. But, the only way I can imagine it being worthwhile is for some super-specialized program that really fits a particular passion of theirs and that leads to a lucrative career. Going into debt purely for surface things like perceived status, name recognition, or you just love the campus is not worth it IMO. |
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http://chronicle.com/interactives/freshmen_states
This is another interesting article that shows where out-of-state students come from for each state. |
+1 And people from all sorts of schools do amazing things in their respective fields. And I have friends who haven't done anything amazing professionally but are incredible people. |
Funny, were still waiting for the state that say they don't... Signed, JMU Alum and UVa Law Grad...and remembers JMU well represented there.... |
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For the record you are the only poster comparing JMU (or UVa or WM for that matter) to Stanford. This thread has gone off the rails. Someone has an axe and it's showing.... |
I'm marveling at the fact that an "academic" such as yourself (snicker) would be spending so much time on a thread concerning a school or schools you have such disdain for. It appears you are a poor advertisement for your own profession. Clearly academia isn't keeping you nearly busy enough! |
+1 I "I never hesitate to contact old study friends, even professionally. And then outside of the work world, it's wonderful to know so many people who are big contributors in life. My old roommates are doing some amazing things in their respective fields and I'm glad to call them my friends." And I went to a state school, imagine that. I guess this kind of thing can happen no matter where you go to school!
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LOL! You must not be a sports person at all. UVA has done very well in baseball and men's basketball in recent years. Their soccer program is usually good as well. GMU - Final Four 2006, google it. |
I am an immigrant and artsy; husband is not into sports, either. Sports were the last thing on our minds - scratch that, they were not on our mind at all when we were considering college options for our oldest. VA still wins for the variety of options and value for the $$ for the in-state candidates. Now our kid has been indoctrinated into the school spirit and regularly goes to home games... still can't wrap my mind around this
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| Forbes ranks JMU #185. |
One of the benefits of tenure is that I have all the time I need to correct people who are wrong on the internet. And shouldn't you be slaving away at your humdrum office job right now? |