I imagine at the earliest, end of March since that’s when admitted students have to commit. |
| How much is the deposit? Does it change as between schools? |
Varies from school to school. Most common are $500, $1000, or 10% of tuition (which can be $5000+). |
| Many schools (most?) also have a “new student enrollment fee,” which is nothing other than a cash grab from families excited that their kid is going to a new school and would never object. |
| Beauvoir and Maret. Chose Beauvoir. |
Whoa. |
Why GDS over Sidwell? |
Right. DD intentionally wanted to explore a range of schools on her list and wanted to include a same sex school. We have friends at most of the girls’ schools in the area and I’ve heard positive things from our friends at SRSH, versus NCS, which has been a tougher environment. The problem that we have now is that she said she felt so much “happier“ during her visit to SR, where she feels that the environment at Sidwell will be too intense and pressured. And she’s not wrong, I think that that is an accurate assessment of Sidwell. Culturally, however, we are a progressive family, and I think that environment is more consistent with our thinking than the traditional Catholic environment of SRSH. Sidwell is also 1 mile up the road from where we live, as opposed to a 25 minute drive into Rockville. I am trying hard to listen to my daughter and make the right choice. But we are down to the wire and she has not decided yet. I can’t figure out if she just wants me to choose for her or if she’s looking for my support and permission to decline Sidwell. I’ve asked her directly and it’s hard for her to say. It’s been stressful.
Any parents of kids at these schools or those that faced a similar choice, please weigh in. |
| We were in a similar situation. Child having a very difficult time deciding between an academically excellent but more balanced school that is very "fun" and a single gender school known to be more intense. Ultimately, we said that as parents we are making the choice and we think that you will grow and develop more in a structured environment. All of DC's observations were valid and thoughtful, just missing the perspective of time that we parents have. |
| Location and commute a huge factor especially as high school ramps up and time management becomes very important. |
Oof. Good luck… |
Better personalities and attitudes at GDS. |
I would always respect the child. |
Worried about this now. We're going from a 7 minute commute to 30+ minutes. DS is going to have to learn to roll out of bed earlier. |
Oof. That’s going to be a rough transition. We had a 30-45 min commute for DC from PK through 4th, before much homework or afterschool activities, and it was bad. Plus if there was a crash or anything major on one of the highways, it could take a hour. Commute became an important factor for the next two school decisions. Now at 15-20 min for HS and it’s very nice. |