The Death of Private School As We Know It

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Anonymous wrote:The OP’s initial observation about colleges carries a lot of truth. If top colleges continue to weighing diversity and social justice ahead of test scores and merit, before long a degree from a “top college” will not carry the value that it did historically.


Exactly! The issue is not the death of private schools, but rather the death of elite colleges. In less than one generation from now, the Ivys and similar schools will become niche schools, and lesser known schools that base admissions purely on merit and lower the D&I drumbeat will emerge as the new elite education.


Elite colleges didn't become elite because of merit admissions. You really think all those people who got admitted before now were admitted strictly on merit?

I guess you don't have a problem with top colleges weighing legacy, athletic abilities and donors before test scores and merit, presumably since those advantages all heavily skew to whites.


I do have to agree that the public perception of elite colleges is changing and not for the better. I have two Ivy degrees but even my opinion of these schools have declined in recent years.

I have more respect for the elite colleges of the past. They were blatantly for rich kids and they didn't hide it the way they try to today with weird social engineering and simultaneously trying to pretend to be meritocratic and progressive institutions. Given that meritocracy and progressivity are increasingly decoupling, it's revealing this ugly ideological chasm that really can't be covered up much longer. The American public is much more meritocratic than progressive, and if the elite colleges firmly become progressive, then they do become niche schools and decidedly out of touch and that can catch up in ways they don't expect. I also assume the younger graduates are decidedly more ideological than soundly educated and they have to prove otherwise when I interview them. Don't worry, many do. But many don't, and that perception is growing. I no longer respect a degree from, say, Yale, the way I did 20 years ago.



why did you respect a degree from Yale 20 years ago if it was just blatantly for rich kids? I think you could argue that admissions were less meritocratic 20 years ago than they are now.



Different kind of hooks now from 50 years ago. Used to be legacies and selected prep schools. Now it is URMs, etc. Associating with the children of the rich and important used to be part of the perceived value. Now your hooked classmates with be URMs and Asian tennis players. So how much of an Ivy League degree's value comes from networking, how much from learning, and how much from prestige?


man, your argument gets more and more racist every time you refine it. kudos. at least now you're admitting that it has nothing to do with merit and being 'soundly educated'.


The PP's argument does not sound racist to me. It sounds honest and thought provoking. This is yet another reason why elite colleges may be on the decline, because meaningless racism banter pushes out intelligent discussion.


URMs and Asian tennis players being the problem and their attendance devaluing an Ivy League degree isn't a race based argument?



The discussion is about race based admissions, so yes, the PP by definition made a "race based argument." But the obligatory response of calling people racist when you disagree is getting old. Grow up.
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Anonymous wrote:The OP’s initial observation about colleges carries a lot of truth. If top colleges continue to weighing diversity and social justice ahead of test scores and merit, before long a degree from a “top college” will not carry the value that it did historically.


Exactly! The issue is not the death of private schools, but rather the death of elite colleges. In less than one generation from now, the Ivys and similar schools will become niche schools, and lesser known schools that base admissions purely on merit and lower the D&I drumbeat will emerge as the new elite education.


Elite colleges didn't become elite because of merit admissions. You really think all those people who got admitted before now were admitted strictly on merit?

I guess you don't have a problem with top colleges weighing legacy, athletic abilities and donors before test scores and merit, presumably since those advantages all heavily skew to whites.


I do have to agree that the public perception of elite colleges is changing and not for the better. I have two Ivy degrees but even my opinion of these schools have declined in recent years.

I have more respect for the elite colleges of the past. They were blatantly for rich kids and they didn't hide it the way they try to today with weird social engineering and simultaneously trying to pretend to be meritocratic and progressive institutions. Given that meritocracy and progressivity are increasingly decoupling, it's revealing this ugly ideological chasm that really can't be covered up much longer. The American public is much more meritocratic than progressive, and if the elite colleges firmly become progressive, then they do become niche schools and decidedly out of touch and that can catch up in ways they don't expect. I also assume the younger graduates are decidedly more ideological than soundly educated and they have to prove otherwise when I interview them. Don't worry, many do. But many don't, and that perception is growing. I no longer respect a degree from, say, Yale, the way I did 20 years ago.



why did you respect a degree from Yale 20 years ago if it was just blatantly for rich kids? I think you could argue that admissions were less meritocratic 20 years ago than they are now.



Different kind of hooks now from 50 years ago. Used to be legacies and selected prep schools. Now it is URMs, etc. Associating with the children of the rich and important used to be part of the perceived value. Now your hooked classmates with be URMs and Asian tennis players. So how much of an Ivy League degree's value comes from networking, how much from learning, and how much from prestige?


man, your argument gets more and more racist every time you refine it. kudos. at least now you're admitting that it has nothing to do with merit and being 'soundly educated'.


The PP's argument does not sound racist to me. It sounds honest and thought provoking. This is yet another reason why elite colleges may be on the decline, because meaningless racism banter pushes out intelligent discussion.


URMs and Asian tennis players being the problem and their attendance devaluing an Ivy League degree isn't a race based argument?



The discussion is about race based admissions, so yes, the PP by definition made a "race based argument." But the obligatory response of calling people racist when you disagree is getting old. Grow up.


No it wasn’t. It was an argument about elite colleges not being elite and the poster noted that they were not elite because now they admitted URMs and Asian tennis players. As if these groups polluted the school.

I’m sure you don’t like being called out for it.
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You should save accusations of racism for the very rare instances where it is actually true. If admissions favor URMs and lessen reliance on grades and test scores, can the effects of that on the school not be discussed objectively without calling somebody racist?
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Anonymous wrote:You should save accusations of racism for the very rare instances where it is actually true. If admissions favor URMs and lessen reliance on grades and test scores, can the effects of that on the school not be discussed objectively without calling somebody racist?


Again the argument was that the schools were better back then because they were rich. None of those people were getting in an exams and test scores. But you didn’t have a problem with that.

You also don’t have a problem with white FGLI students who get in or white athletes with lower grades and test scores.

And you point out Asian(!) tennis players? They don’t have grades and scores?

The only running thread is race. Nothing more. Make all the excuses you want but the problem you have isn’t that they allegedly have lower grades and test scores it’s that they allegedly have lower grades and test scores and aren’t white.
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Anonymous wrote:Husband and I graduated from our state flagship and the private and Catholic school kids ran circles around everyone in the classroom and socially. I went to "one of the best" public schools in the state and could not keep up. They were on a different level. Anyone pinching pennies when it comes to kindergarten through 12th education for an alleged better roll of the dice with Ivies is frankly an idiot.


They're an idiot because there is no better roll at a DMV public. If you ever review the admits from Whitman, Wilson, Mclean, etc. something like 98% of the Ivy admits are legacy, athletes or URM. THE SAME FREAKING demographics as the private school admits. THERE IS NO MAGIC IVY-BOUND HIGH SCHOOL FOR WHITE OR ASIAN KIDS. Except many some of the NE boarding schools?
But actually I'm sure it's the same story there. More admits but they're probably also legacies, URM, athletes plus some Ivy faculty kids thrown in.


At least in the DC area, there aren't a lot of Asians in private high schools. Mainly public. Same for families from India


Isn't it interesting how public schools are still working for asian and indian kids???

interesting how you never hear asian parents saying public schools are not a good fit for their children the way you hear it from white parents on this forum. LOL!


Those Asian parents know they can't lose a dime on private school because unless they are truly low income, their kids will not get any aid. They have to be full pay to get in to the best school possible and they can't risk it.

Asians are discriminated against in admissions and it is terrible. I am Black and have experience working as an admissions counselor at a desirable SLAC. It isn't the Black kids taking the spots from the qualified Asian students. The legacies and white athletes are the problem there. The way our system works, the Asians end up hating the Blacks and are still trying to dismantle affirmative action because they think that will help them get in. They don't realize that white supremacy wins every time. Divided minority groups will never triumph. Even if the Asians win and affirmative action goes away, they still wont admit more Asians. They will come up with a new way to gatekeep and block those students and continue to admit more unqualified white students with rich parents. That is how white supremacy works. The goalposts will be moved - and by the way, it is already happening, with this test optional movement. When schools don't have to look at test scores, they will be able to reject as many qualified Asian candidates as they want.

For the bitter white parents who think that URMs are the reason why you kids are not getting in - please spend get some perspective, go to some therapy, go volunteer somewhere, or do something to help you to understand that your child, whom you think is exceptional, is not exceptional. There are so many thousands of remarkably capable and talented young people out there and they are all vying for the exact same spots.

Let's just talk a measurable data point to help you get this. The SAT.
In 2020, 2 MILLION students took the SAT. The top 5% of scores represents 100,000 students.
In 2020, Ivy League schools offered admission (both regular and early) to 23,260 applicants. That means that 75,000 students who had a score in the 95th percentile wouldn't have gotten into an Ivy.
In 2020, Harvard offered admission to only 2,000 students out of 39,000 applicants.
In 2020, Yale offered admission to only 1,976 students out of 31,000 applicants.

Your children will get in to college somewhere if they have applied to a range of schools that includes some safeties. They will be ok. They will graduate and get jobs (you will clear the way for them, as you have thus far. You will get them internships and jobs and send clients to them. You will give them money for a downpayment)I know you all feel that DC is a big pond and that your top students are truly some of the best and brightest in the nation. They are in a very, very, vast and deep ocean. Even if your child scores in the 98th percentile on the SAT, remember that means they have 40,000 other compatriots in that top 2% of test takers. Still more than the available slots at Ivies. I know that test scores are not the only factor, but it helps to put your expectations in perspective.


Preach! Signed Asian. White supremacy is at work in TJ too
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I send my DC for both - quality of education (smaller classes, more programs, etc.) as well as college admissions. Not Ivy necessarily but yes, top tier institutions based on DC's performance/grades/class load, participation in sports, arts, leadership etc.
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Anonymous wrote:Doesn't matter if you can't get into an Ivy, private lifers go to tier 2 and 3 colleges, get all As, and always graduate within 4 years. College ends up being easier than high school in many respects. While the public lifers--outside of the de facto private magnet public alums--end up at whatever campus and realize by week 1 or 2 they are literally years behind peers from writing ability to social skills and everything in-between. Wanna be pre-med and engineering quickly turns into marketing, communications, sociology, and political science -- and half of them take 5 or 6 years to graduate, if they don't quit before then.


This is silly and completely out of touch. Possibly a rationalization for their decisions. If your student is naturally good, well-rounded, and curious, they will strive in either environment. Save to it money and allow then to flourish in a REAL WORLD training ground! Do baseball players train for life at a bowling alley with only players of a certain demographic? You are fraud your little Johnny will fail and you continue to shelter and protect.


WTF are you blabbering about? I know tons of private school kids and they're all thriving quite well as adults. You sound unhinged.
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Anonymous wrote:You should save accusations of racism for the very rare instances where it is actually true. If admissions favor URMs and lessen reliance on grades and test scores, can the effects of that on the school not be discussed objectively without calling somebody racist?


They are blatantly disfavoring certain races at the expense of other races, so the answer is no.
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Anonymous wrote:Here are the 2021 admissions from a Big3 (does not included multiple admits at many of the schools). Is there one college on this list that you wouldn't be happy that your kid is attending?
Personally I think it's awesome and guarantee that my kid will attend a decent college---never mind that they are also learning to to write well and think critically.

Boston College
Boston University
Brown
Bucknell
Colby
Colgate
William and Mary
Columbia
Cornell
Dartmouth
Davidson
Duke
Emory
Georgetown
Georgia Tech
Harvard
Johns Hopkins
NYU
Northwestern
Oberlin
Princeton
SMU
Stanford
Syracuse
Tufts
Tulane
UCLA
Chicago
Michigan
Penn
Richmond
Sewanee
USC
St. Andrews
UVA
Wisconsin
Vanderbilt
Wake Forest
Washington and Lee
Wash U
Yale


Not one bad school on this list. Impressive!


It if you placed the same kids in the public, why wouldn’t they be accepted into the same schools? It’s not attending the Big 3 that helped with admittance, it’s the attributes of the kid! So why spend the money again??


The same kids who decline the Big 3 and went public also got into these schools. And saved $200k…who looks silly now. Maybe to continue the trend, you can ask these schools on the list that you want to pay $200k more in tuition than the kids who graduated from publics! That way you will feel better


I bet if all things equal and the twins split between private and public, the schools would take the public every time. The public would stand out even more against their peers. Fact. Why would you pay $200k to be in that position?


Your posts on top of your other posts are getting tiring. No one cares what you think. I didn't send my kids to private school because I wanted to piss you off. I don't want the money back.
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Anonymous wrote:The OP’s initial observation about colleges carries a lot of truth. If top colleges continue to weighing diversity and social justice ahead of test scores and merit, before long a degree from a “top college” will not carry the value that it did historically.


Exactly! The issue is not the death of private schools, but rather the death of elite colleges. In less than one generation from now, the Ivys and similar schools will become niche schools, and lesser known schools that base admissions purely on merit and lower the D&I drumbeat will emerge as the new elite education.


HA! Keep dreaming. Harvard has been around since 1636, and you somehow think that in 10-15 years it'll suddenly become undesirable? Ok...
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Anonymous wrote:You should save accusations of racism for the very rare instances where it is actually true. If admissions favor URMs and lessen reliance on grades and test scores, can the effects of that on the school not be discussed objectively without calling somebody racist?


They are blatantly disfavoring certain races at the expense of other races, so the answer is no.


Go read the entire thread. It is racist when a supposed lesser reliance on grades and test scores is only a problem when URMs are involved. Do you think these schools care what rich, white people's grades and test scores were in the past? Or now? They certainly don't care about grades and test scores when white athletes are involved.

So a lack of reliance on grades and test scores isn't your problem because then you'd be complaining about athletic recruiting, legacy and donor admits. And you certainly wouldn't be saying that these colleges were elite in the early 1900s when grades and test scores meant even less (and the applicant pool was severely curtailed). So the only consistent theme that can reconcile these contradictory thoughts is that you only have a problem when URMs are supposedly the beneficiaries. It's not about merit and never has been. You don't want those people going to your precious 'elite colleges". That is a racist argument.

This is reinforced by the use of "Asian tennis players", which was also specifically cited as being a reason why elite colleges were less elite. Please explain to me how that isn't a racist argument. Are you going to argue that this is a symptom of the supposed lack of merit? If not, then what's wrong with having a few more Asian tennis players?

At the end of the day, the post basically was saying having URMs and Asians (I'll assume the poster had no problem with tennis players generally but that's being generous) degraded the value of an elite college. You can't make excuses that (i) this is about grades and test scores because you fail on the Asian front and (ii) this is about having rich, connected people on campus because you fail by not including white FGLI students in your rant. So all you're left with is simply saying "Colleges are more elite and valued when they're mostly white and wealthy".

This is what was actually written and called racist. Go ahead and defend it.
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Anonymous wrote:You should save accusations of racism for the very rare instances where it is actually true. If admissions favor URMs and lessen reliance on grades and test scores, can the effects of that on the school not be discussed objectively without calling somebody racist?


Assuming without evidence — and apparently taking for granted that everyone else will agree — that admitting URMs and Asians lowers the quality of a school is clearly racist. That’s exactly what the posted did. The fact that you seem to take this assumption for granted suggests that you are also somewhat racist in your outlook.

The fact that you assert that racism is “very rare” despite mountains of evidence of systemic racism in law enforcement, education, government policy making, etc. makes you seem like a racist with an agenda.
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Anonymous wrote:You should save accusations of racism for the very rare instances where it is actually true. If admissions favor URMs and lessen reliance on grades and test scores, can the effects of that on the school not be discussed objectively without calling somebody racist?


They are blatantly disfavoring certain races at the expense of other races, so the answer is no.


Go read the entire thread. It is racist when a supposed lesser reliance on grades and test scores is only a problem when URMs are involved. Do you think these schools care what rich, white people's grades and test scores were in the past? Or now? They certainly don't care about grades and test scores when white athletes are involved.

So a lack of reliance on grades and test scores isn't your problem because then you'd be complaining about athletic recruiting, legacy and donor admits. And you certainly wouldn't be saying that these colleges were elite in the early 1900s when grades and test scores meant even less (and the applicant pool was severely curtailed). So the only consistent theme that can reconcile these contradictory thoughts is that you only have a problem when URMs are supposedly the beneficiaries. It's not about merit and never has been. You don't want those people going to your precious 'elite colleges". That is a racist argument.

This is reinforced by the use of "Asian tennis players", which was also specifically cited as being a reason why elite colleges were less elite. Please explain to me how that isn't a racist argument. Are you going to argue that this is a symptom of the supposed lack of merit? If not, then what's wrong with having a few more Asian tennis players?

At the end of the day, the post basically was saying having URMs and Asians (I'll assume the poster had no problem with tennis players generally but that's being generous) degraded the value of an elite college. You can't make excuses that (i) this is about grades and test scores because you fail on the Asian front and (ii) this is about having rich, connected people on campus because you fail by not including white FGLI students in your rant. So all you're left with is simply saying "Colleges are more elite and valued when they're mostly white and wealthy".

This is what was actually written and called racist. Go ahead and defend it.


PP here. I wrote the post to suggest that elite colleges have become less elite as they admitted fewer and fewer of the wealthy and connected. My comment of about the Asian tennis players was just low level trolling and not part of the argument. Around 25% of Harvard's students are URMs. My discussion concerns admissions for the other 75% of the students.

I suspect the wealthy and connected have coalesced at schools that favor students from that background and that those schools will gain prestige at the expense of the ivies. Where do the graduates of the elite New England boarding schools go now that the ivies do not favor them? (I know that changed long ago.) Where do wealthy students from top DC private schools go that will favorably admit the children of the wealthy and connected? Which are the schools that wealthy (and accomplished) students seek out for networking and prestige?
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News flash, people have been debating for years the pros and cons of lowering standards for all these groups, not just URMs. You don't think people at Harvard complain about the dumb jock or the rich kid who can't cut it academically and wonder if they are harming the institution in the long run? But the difference is that you can't even have the discussion about URMs without people being called racist. Thank you for proving this point with your last few posts.
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Anonymous wrote:News flash, people have been debating for years the pros and cons of lowering standards for all these groups, not just URMs. You don't think people at Harvard complain about the dumb jock or the rich kid who can't cut it academically and wonder if they are harming the institution in the long run? But the difference is that you can't even have the discussion about URMs without people being called racist. Thank you for proving this point with your last few posts.


When you treat URMs as some unique category and ignore everything else that is exactly the same except that the beneficiaries are white, guess what, you're being racist about it.

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