| Gender Queer is available on Kindle Unlimited (if you are a subscriber). I read it, and it is graphic. I think it’s an important book for the right struggling older teen reader. It’s more about self discovery than porn, though again, still graphic. Perhaps having a free ebook check out is the better option than having a physical book on a shelf. If I was struggling with my gender and sexuality I would want to read it in private on my phone or kindle rather than check out a physical copy for my parents to find. |
How is an adult librarian or teacher providing sexually explicit content to minors the same thing as kids organically "acting on urges" with other kids This is where people are losing me. It's 2 totally different scenarios. One is evil. |
You clearly have too much rubbish rattling around in your head... |
Pp is not wrong. It’s pretty sad. |
Tell me you haven’t read the books without telling me you haven’t read the books. |
+1. These books never should have been acquired for public school libraries. |
Most of the illiterati here posting nonsense would get stumped by question #1. |
How about FCPS removes the filthy books and doesn’t subject parents to an unnecessary process simply to give school officials additional cover for their bad decisions? And “illiterati”? Really? Sounds like the type of language Karl Frisch would use to make himself feel better about not having a college degree. |
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Gender Queer does not have any underage sex acts. The main character is a virgin until age 25. But there is talk/graphics about menstruation, breasts, vagina, pretending to have a penis, etc.
Later when the main character is much older there is more sexualized talk. Perhaps it’s better for a college library than high school. |
I don't want my child in any school where they read about or talk about their genitals unless it's in a scientific or medical discussion. It's NOT appropriate. |
Same poster - If it's not appropriate to discuss at work, it's not appropriate at school. I cannot go to a coworkers office and talk about my genitals or sex. We have trainings for that. It is considered sexual harassment. |
No one was discussing it. It’s a library book your teen can check out on their own. |
Okay, I understand now. You don't have an issue with the book itself or the content. You are perfectly okay with acts depicted in the fiction story when they play out in real life. Meaning it is neither shameful nor forbidden for children to act on sexual urges and natural curiosity. Rather the librarian is an evil-doer is an evildoer for being in the same building as a book that no one is making them read, even though it might actually have some literary or artistic value or at the very least might actually get a teen to read a book. So instead of spending time reading a book that might actually help them as they journey into adulthood, by giving them a safe place to explore feelings and emotions, books are safe that way. You are for the banning of any safe tool, such as a book, because it is evilness brought into the school by evildoers. Have you actually watched any modern pornography, you know the type your teens consume on the web, stuff they can spend hours online accessing and you would have no idea that they are doing it. Porn that is actually explicit and can be quite damaging to the sexual and social development of young minds and old minds too. So spending hours online accessing actual psychologically damaging porn in which damaged, and often times exploited people are paid to go at it like robots. Body parts devoid of human emotional thought, context or feeling, and to pretend like they are having fun. Porn real porn can be pretty awful stuff. It's often degrading to women and men alike and impedes the development of healthy sexuality in young people. If you pay the internet bill, or bought the laptop, or pay the electricity then I guess that makes you an evildoer too. This is the thing I never understand about people who jump up and down and say ban this book because it is bad. Books are experiments in thought. They allow you to try on a character for a few hours at a time, in a safe place, and books are very easy to avoid if that is your choice. Books have and always been and always will be a pull technology, you aren't going to corrupt a young person just because they are in the same room as a book. You can't make someone read a book. I personally can't wait until my DC has enough patience, emotional maturity, and depth to actually stick with and read an entire novel. I will consider it a triumph regardless of what it is that ultimately switches the lever from self to others. I spend my time worrying that the school system will suck that out of her, not that the school system might actually turn her onto something that makes her stop and think about the lives and experiences of others who exist (real or fictionalize) outside of herself. |
| Well said 14:02 |
Sex isn't filthy... repeat after me "sex isn't filthy and I am not a dirty boy/girl for having "impure" thoughts". "Lust isn't shameful", Honestly either you are being used by people way smarter than you or you are very damaged and need help. |