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It must suck to be so negative all the time. Cheer up buttercup |
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Oh FFS, stfu danni. Very humble of you to post that. You won't be successful for long with how much you're running your mouth. And comparing herself getting fired to someone coerced into making a potentially false confession and being locked up for life is WAY overdramatic. Ok Danni.
It must suck to be so negative all the time. Cheer up buttercup On the contrary - many of the posters on here thrive on the negativity. Nothing more invigorating than a little drama and haterade. These girls are having the time of their lives being keyboard drama queens. It makes them feel more important than their real life. Hi, I'm not Danni, Rose, Nat, Peter, IJ, Laura, Erick or anyone else involved first hand. Just taking a short break from my reality to check in on the DCUM soap opera. Also I don't need anyone to tell me "bye Felica" or tell me to stay away if I don't like it. How 3rd grade - does your mom know you're on the computer? javascript:void(0); |
Girl bye !!! By Felicia Yes all of that. |
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Going to USF and graduating from USF are very different. Maybe she didn't complete her degree. |
| my personal opinion is that a divorce changes many previous parenting and financial choices (such as being a SAHM), but regardless of that, I think it would be good solely for Natasha to get out of the house and do something whether it's paid work or just volunteering somewhere occasionally. maybe she already does, who knows. |
Just having a college degree does not make someone smart. It means yo had money to pay for said degree, but a 4 year degree is no sign of intelligence. Especially when she has done nothing with it. |
| She finished her degree. I remember seeing her graduation pictures. Not sure how that degree is going to work out though when she hasn't had much formal work experience within the last 10 years. |
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So I agree that it would be good for N to get a job and get out there but it won't be financially easy. I had a really wonderful friend who was super smart and great at her job but the amount of money she was making at our job was less than it costed for her to put her kids in daycare, so she had to quit and committed to bring a SAHM. Now she is looking at joining the job force again bc her kids are older.
I hire a lot of moms at my job (I own a small business) and it can be difficult for them to find employment bc if a child gets sick at school and they need to pick the kid up, they have to leave work...which doesn't rub many employers well. Since Kane works from like 4am or whatever to 1 or two, she's the only one who can get them going in the AM....and he's likely unable to pick them up after the little one is done with her half day. They would have to hire a nanny which may not make financial sense. She does also have fibromyalgia, which another friend of mine has, and I know it flares up with stress and can be quite debilitating. This last year was probably stressful to say the least so it may make it difficult for her to get a job. Additionally, am I the only one who thinks Kane may not be ok with her working a "lowly" (not my opinion) retail job? He does have quite an ego. As to people who are discussing how an er would let someone go with a wound on your head...you would be surprised what ers let people leave with. My father died after visiting an er bc they overlooked some symptoms of a serious infections and just gave him antibiotics and rushed him out. It happens. |
It's true that Natasha would be the one that would have to get the kids ready in the morning, however, it's likely that Sophie is going to half-day kindergarten (I'm assuming, I honestly can't remember how old the girls are), which means she'll be going all day by next year for first grade, so having to pick her up in the middle of the day will no longer be an issue. Her health issues did probably flair up in the last year, I can understand that. I was more making a point earlier to people who were basically saying that she shouldn't ever have to get a job because they both agreed she would be a SAHM, and while that's true, I would think a part time job would be feasible once both girls are going to school all day. Sorry about your father. I agree that it's not unheard of for an ER or doctor to send someone home undiagnosed. My best friend's FIL died of cancer about a year after his doctor's office didn't contact him about his biopsy. Very sad. |
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Is Felicia the new Danni on TKS?
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More of a general question/observation and not entirely specific to her situation as there are others out there in the same situation, but I just don’t see how it is feasible for her to live off of alimony and child support for the rest of her life. I suppose she could get the house outright, half of their money outright, and child support for the next 10ish years, and invest that well. I suppose the best bet would be to get remarried. My husband makes quite a bit more $$ than I do, but I’d still be able to support myself if he up and left. |
Op here. I totally agree with the fact that the circumstances have changed and the whole SAHM situation won't be feasible anymore...but I do t think she can honestly make that jump UNTIL the littlest one has started school. Def don't think she should live off alimony for forever. Not to be constantly referring to different friends but I do have a friend whose parent divorced when she was 25, mom def thinks she "deserves" to never have to get a job and he should pay her 60k a year. It's not realistic. |
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Op of this one again ^
Sorry for all the errors, on a bumpy train. |
Oh man, thank you for the laugh. I am assuming you are talking about everyone saying "bye Felicia!" It is a reference from the movie Friday that is used often to dismiss people acting a fool. |