The Research on Various Childcare Options

[Anonymous]

There are babies who stayed home and then cries at strangers, people's faces and laughs, cries at anything. Parents don't have the qualifications. They just spoil children and that brings consequences later in life.
I teach my kids to be independent. But it's awful seeing a lot of kids yelling at their parents. Jesus crist

[Anonymous]

^ you can’t “spoil” an infant.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are babies who stayed home and then cries at strangers, people's faces and laughs, cries at anything. Parents don't have the qualifications. They just spoil children and that brings consequences later in life.
I teach my kids to be independent. But it's awful seeing a lot of kids yelling at their parents. Jesus crist

Insane.

[Anonymous]

We had the best of both worlds - small in home daycare. No more than 5 children at a time with 2 caring adults. It was basically a nanny share. We switched the kids to a small preschool at 2.5. It was the ideal situation - kids are in 4th and 7th now and are smart, curious, well-behaved, and both play multiple team sports. We made the best choices!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are babies who stayed home and then cries at strangers, people's faces and laughs, cries at anything. Parents don't have the qualifications. They just spoil children and that brings consequences later in life.
I teach my kids to be independent. But it's awful seeing a lot of kids yelling at their parents. Jesus crist

Insane.

Truly. I mean, why limit childcare to 8 hours a day if this is the case? Since most parents are unqualified to care for babies, why not just take them away at birth and rates them in facilities with round the clock professional care. I wonder if anyone has ever tried this, seems foolproof.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We had the best of both worlds - small in home daycare. No more than 5 children at a time with 2 caring adults. It was basically a nanny share. We switched the kids to a small preschool at 2.5. It was the ideal situation - kids are in 4th and 7th now and are smart, curious, well-behaved, and both play multiple team sports. We made the best choices!

You mean you had the best choices (though I disagree this is universally the best choice, and also how convenient for you that a global pandemic didn’t occur to shut down your in-home daycare, maybe even put it out of business, and then postpone your kids’ entry into preschool by 6 months, at which point they would spend the next two years doing masking and social distancing at school).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We had the best of both worlds - small in home daycare. No more than 5 children at a time with 2 caring adults. It was basically a nanny share. We switched the kids to a small preschool at 2.5. It was the ideal situation - kids are in 4th and 7th now and are smart, curious, well-behaved, and both play multiple team sports. We made the best choices!

Lol "we made the best choices". Are you saying that...as a fact? How is an in-home daycare better than having an actual nanny share or just a nanny?

The fact that you're attributing the good qualities your kids supposedly have to your specific childcare choices before they were 2.5 is....amusing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We had the best of both worlds - small in home daycare. No more than 5 children at a time with 2 caring adults. It was basically a nanny share. We switched the kids to a small preschool at 2.5. It was the ideal situation - kids are in 4th and 7th now and are smart, curious, well-behaved, and both play multiple team sports. We made the best choices!

You mean you had the best choices (though I disagree this is universally the best choice, and also how convenient for you that a global pandemic didn’t occur to shut down your in-home daycare, maybe even put it out of business, and then postpone your kids’ entry into preschool by 6 months, at which point they would spend the next two years doing masking and social distancing at school).

Mic drop, lock the thread, we're done here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We had the best of both worlds - small in home daycare. No more than 5 children at a time with 2 caring adults. It was basically a nanny share. We switched the kids to a small preschool at 2.5. It was the ideal situation - kids are in 4th and 7th now and are smart, curious, well-behaved, and both play multiple team sports. We made the best choices!

You mean you had the best choices (though I disagree this is universally the best choice, and also how convenient for you that a global pandemic didn’t occur to shut down your in-home daycare, maybe even put it out of business, and then postpone your kids’ entry into preschool by 6 months, at which point they would spend the next two years doing masking and social distancing at school).

Mic drop, lock the thread, we're done here.

I'm surprised this thread is still going! I don't think anyone has said anything remotely helpful or productive for the last X number of pages.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We had the best of both worlds - small in home daycare. No more than 5 children at a time with 2 caring adults. It was basically a nanny share. We switched the kids to a small preschool at 2.5. It was the ideal situation - kids are in 4th and 7th now and are smart, curious, well-behaved, and both play multiple team sports. We made the best choices!

Oh well if they play multiple sports then you must be a success as a parent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are babies who stayed home and then cries at strangers, people's faces and laughs, cries at anything. Parents don't have the qualifications. They just spoil children and that brings consequences later in life.
I teach my kids to be independent. But it's awful seeing a lot of kids yelling at their parents. Jesus crist

Insane.

Truly. I mean, why limit childcare to 8 hours a day if this is the case? Since most parents are unqualified to care for babies, why not just take them away at birth and rates them in facilities with round the clock professional care. I wonder if anyone has ever tried this, seems foolproof.

There are night nurses for little babies and teachers gives good tips about positive discipline. It helps a lot, especially to elementary kids

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^ you can’t “spoil” an infant.

Discipline is teaching. A lot of parents spoils their children and then they are asking for help in dorums like this!!😂😂🤣🤣


You can start at any age. Even telling no to an Infant of 8 months old that is trying to touch the outlet can understand

I hope you are teaching your kid some boundaries and good manners.
Say no and redirect.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We had the best of both worlds - small in home daycare. No more than 5 children at a time with 2 caring adults. It was basically a nanny share. We switched the kids to a small preschool at 2.5. It was the ideal situation - kids are in 4th and 7th now and are smart, curious, well-behaved, and both play multiple team sports. We made the best choices!

You mean you had the best choices (though I disagree this is universally the best choice, and also how convenient for you that a global pandemic didn’t occur to shut down your in-home daycare, maybe even put it out of business, and then postpone your kids’ entry into preschool by 6 months, at which point they would spend the next two years doing masking and social distancing at school).

Mic drop, lock the thread, we're done here.

I'm surprised this thread is still going! I don't think anyone has said anything remotely helpful or productive for the last X number of pages.

It was not productive since the beginning.

[Anonymous]

Einstein went to a Family Daycare. He was fine lol

[Anonymous]

Maybe if some ex Presudents like trump had a better childhood he would never be a criminal, not paying taxes while the poor and middle class gas to work 2 jobs to survive