
I agree |
Well, I don't know your race. I find you to be of low intelligence and not worth engaging. You are incapable of nuanced discussion and are tiresome. |
You two seriously need to peel off to a new chain.
I just don't want my kids learning what curb-stomping is until they watch American History X off my watch... |
Look, I tried to provide articles that get into the nuance of this. You can project all you want about your ex husband. But, you didn't read McWhorter's critique (he's Black, you know) of Diangelo's work (she's white), did you. |
I agree. But, as displayed in this thread, if you DO have qualms with teaching 3-year-olds about "curb stomping" when that "curb stomping" is discussed in an anti-racism lecture, then you are, indeed, just being racist. |
And if that frustrates you, you are exhibiting white frailty. |
I'm impressed that people are interested in shutting down discussions about anti-racism. In seriousness, this is what we are supposed to do. |
....which brings us back to Diangelo, who wrote the book White Fragility (hence a reason discussion of her teachings is pertinent in this dialogue). |
This is not about playing the victim. It’s about asking humans to completely ignore some important aspects of being human (listening to others and being listened to).If you are being asked to be part of a discussion but are told that your thoughts and feelings and opinions won’t count, then it’s not really a discussion is it? |
You are permitted to have whatever thoughts or feelings you want. It just turns out that when you express some particular thoughts, people respond negatively saying "uh, that was racist" or "wow that's weaponizing your guilt," or "you're making yourself the center of attention." Somehow everyone else is the problem when your ONE WEIRD THOUGHT keeps getting negative responses. |
How hyper-dramatic. "One's own thoughts, feelings, impressions, or ideas don't matter." Maybe about one particular area. Maybe, indeed, your thoughts or feelings in certain areas or at certain times don't actually matter, or expressing them in certain ways is indeed inappropriate. This is how life is for someone who isn't a narcissist. Every parent in here has had to swallow their feelings or pride at some point or another. Everyone who has had to shut their mouth around a friend before. Maybe you had to sincerely apologize to a family member in order to repair a relationship. I just find it odd when people who are otherwise understanding and able to control themselves suddenly find themselves in extremes of "I MUST EXPRESS MYSELF FULLY AND COMPLETELY WITH NO CONSEQUENCES," when the subject is anti-racism. |
Right. So you are saying that white people can't say anything critical about anything characterized as "anti-racist." We get it. |
what a strawman |
I guess if you want to ignore all of the nuances of everything I said, sure, that's your takeaway. |
I think the Diangelo school of thought is on display in this thread. That's why she got brought up. I'm not sure if you are suggesting that you haven't heard of Diangelo ("some white woman"). She's a very popular anti-racism lecturer, and every white woman and their mother has been told to read White Fragility. She's widely discussed alongside Kendi, with others in the press comparing their approaches. |