What happened at Brearley?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We are the adults, as is everyone who works at the school. It’s totally within bounds to share data points and question what could have been done differently in the hope it will never happen again. Dalton, for example, did this post a terrible incident with a kid in the early 2000s. A kid is dead who shouldn’t be — it’s okay to wonder how anyone, including the school, might have done better by them, including the paid professionals who missed the warning signs this girl was in trouble.

i don't know why you are putting so much responsibility on the school.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Imagine you are a parent, actively grieving and suffering through this tragedy, and learn that people are passively talking about your child’s death and the potential causes on an anonymous gossip forum. How would you feel?

i don't think going to DC Urban Moms would be high on my list if i was a parent whose daughter just died.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We are the adults, as is everyone who works at the school. It’s totally within bounds to share data points and question what could have been done differently in the hope it will never happen again. Dalton, for example, did this post a terrible incident with a kid in the early 2000s. A kid is dead who shouldn’t be — it’s okay to wonder how anyone, including the school, might have done better by them, including the paid professionals who missed the warning signs this girl was in trouble.

Do I have to report you again? Can you try a little harder to help yourself from posts about this specific situation that malign the school?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We are the adults, as is everyone who works at the school. It’s totally within bounds to share data points and question what could have been done differently in the hope it will never happen again. Dalton, for example, did this post a terrible incident with a kid in the early 2000s. A kid is dead who shouldn’t be — it’s okay to wonder how anyone, including the school, might have done better by them, including the paid professionals who missed the warning signs this girl was in trouble.

Do I have to report you again? Can you try a little harder to help yourself from posts about this specific situation that malign the school?

She seems to need psychiatric help herself. It is really remarkable.

[Anonymous]

There are always more sides to any story, but I find the lack of feeling of responsibility at some of these schools toward their (in some cases) very young children and their families concerning. You hear all these lectures about community, etc — but we lose one of our own, and it’s just, eh, what can you do?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We are the adults, as is everyone who works at the school. It’s totally within bounds to share data points and question what could have been done differently in the hope it will never happen again. Dalton, for example, did this post a terrible incident with a kid in the early 2000s. A kid is dead who shouldn’t be — it’s okay to wonder how anyone, including the school, might have done better by them, including the paid professionals who missed the warning signs this girl was in trouble.

i don't know why you are putting so much responsibility on the school.