Can you tell if a couple has a good sex life?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think more about of two people seem compatible/happy. But I know very well that people hide being miserable.

+1

[Anonymous]

You never know what goes on behind closed doors. Never.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No but you can sometimes feel the chemistry between two people or not.

Very true.

[Anonymous]

My best friend and her husband seem to absolutely despise each other. They fight, yell, complain, every other week one of them is “that’s it, I’m filing for divorce!”

They also hump like rabbits. And I know all the details, and they are quite freaky.

So, no, I don’t think you can tell. Unless maybe very volatile people like her tend to also have great sex from the hot/cold dynamic.

[Anonymous]

You can't know for sure, but people who seem happy probably have a nice home life.

[Anonymous]

No one would suspect that my spouse and I have sex. And we don't.

[Anonymous]

I generally think that people who exercise a lot, particularly men, don’t have a great sex life.
If a middle-aged married man has a whole home gym set up in his garage, his marriage is basically sexless.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I generally think that people who exercise a lot, particularly men, don’t have a great sex life.
If a middle-aged married man has a whole home gym set up in his garage, his marriage is basically sexless.

But his affair isn’t.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I generally think that people who exercise a lot, particularly men, don’t have a great sex life.
If a middle-aged married man has a whole home gym set up in his garage, his marriage is basically sexless.

In my case you would be wrong. I am 48, keep in shape using the gym at work and have plenty of sex at home. I am under no illusion that letting myself go would result in even more sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a teacher in a wealthy DC suburb and I am in the midst of parent-teacher conferences. When both parents attend, I am often genuinely puzzled as to how these two people ended up together.
Not the answer to your question but....

I don't think you can always tell outwardly how a couple's sex life is.

Do you ever want to sleep with the dads?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I generally think that people who exercise a lot, particularly men, don’t have a great sex life.
If a middle-aged married man has a whole home gym set up in his garage, his marriage is basically sexless.

In my case you would be wrong. I am 48, keep in shape using the gym at work and have plenty of sex at home. I am under no illusion that letting myself go would result in even more sex.

No. I think it’s the other way. The no sex leads to the going to the gym for hours a day and building one in your garage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a teacher in a wealthy DC suburb and I am in the midst of parent-teacher conferences. When both parents attend, I am often genuinely puzzled as to how these two people ended up together.
Not the answer to your question but....

I don't think you can always tell outwardly how a couple's sex life is.

Over the years, it has occurred to me that love & sex are 2 of the worst reasons to get married, but probably 2 of the most common reasons.

[Anonymous]

Well you could tell Harry and Meghan had a hot sex life the first few years. They were obviously besotted with each other.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well you could tell Harry and Meghan had a hot sex life the first few years. They were obviously besotted with each other.

No, they’re both too “besotted” with their own reflection in the mirror.

[Anonymous]

We are very happy and get along well. We aren’t affectionate in front of others though. And at parties we usually separate so we can mingle with everyone. We often divide and conquer with our 3 kids too. I’m not sure people know how good our marriage is and it feels weird to brag.

We have an awesome sex life. So hot that both of us are still thinking about it the next day.