Stylist for New Teenager

[Anonymous]

I hired a stylist after I was done having kids and needed to dress my new permanent shape. I'd recommend her but she moved out of the area. I think this is a great idea for older teens to offer!

In the meanwhile, I like the idea of the Nordstrom personal shopper or a trusted aunt or mom-friend.

FWIW, I have had a lot of conversations with my 12 yo about how women's sizes are all over the place, what shapes work for my body (which she's definitely going to inherit) and just generally why what your friends are wearing might not fit you. If you can do it outside the store she might be more receptive, or get that trusted friend to deliver the same messages.

[Anonymous]

This is a great resource to use to help your DD. Good for you OP for seeking this out. Don’t listen to the naysayers.

[Anonymous]

She needs an older teen not a stylist. Pay her and give her some guidance in advance as to helping her pick flattering fits and colors and not too revealing if that’s a concern.

[Anonymous]

Pinterest is great for this.

[Anonymous]

I agree with those that say she should go with older teens. My 15 year old fashionista would love this kind of job, and while she’s a tiny person, has helped dress friends of all sizes.

[Anonymous]

I mean she has to find her own style. You just can't style her at age 13!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve only heard of stylists for celebrities.

You need to get out more

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve only heard of stylists for celebrities.

I’ve used a few different low budget ones. I’m the opposite of a celebrity or OP’s daughter. I’m a middle age mom who’s not into style and doesn’t like to shop. There are stylists at several department stores and a variety online. Stitch Fix could be considered one, although it’s a generic computer.

To OP- no, your daughter doesn’t need this. Someone will rip you off and take your money. Let her be, she will find her style with friends at the mall at some point. You might think it looks awful. I don’t like the choices my 14 yo makes but she looks similar to her friends in her clothing choices. She made a lot of clothing changes between 7th and 8th grade.

Hate to say this, but at this point AI is better than some lady at Nordstrom. Stitch fix is geared at old(er) women though -- not going to work for a teen.

I used to work at Altar'd State; if you had come in to our store, preferably not on a weekend when we were crazy busy, we could have helped out a lot. If you can find a store she is inclined to like, call, ask to talk to the manager to set up an appointment to come in and get some help. They can even talk to her and pull things for her to try before you get there, and then you can go through the store as well. They will LOVE to do it, and you will have better results than you would at Nordstrom, Stitch Fix, etc. when at a teen store. Unfortunately there isn't an Altar'd State at Tysons at the moment, but there are plenty of places that would do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve only heard of stylists for celebrities.

I’ve used a few different low budget ones. I’m the opposite of a celebrity or OP’s daughter. I’m a middle age mom who’s not into style and doesn’t like to shop. There are stylists at several department stores and a variety online. Stitch Fix could be considered one, although it’s a generic computer.

To OP- no, your daughter doesn’t need this. Someone will rip you off and take your money. Let her be, she will find her style with friends at the mall at some point. You might think it looks awful. I don’t like the choices my 14 yo makes but she looks similar to her friends in her clothing choices. She made a lot of clothing changes between 7th and 8th grade.

Hate to say this, but at this point AI is better than some lady at Nordstrom. Stitch fix is geared at old(er) women though -- not going to work for a teen.

I used to work at Altar'd State; if you had come in to our store, preferably not on a weekend when we were crazy busy, we could have helped out a lot. If you can find a store she is inclined to like, call, ask to talk to the manager to set up an appointment to come in and get some help. They can even talk to her and pull things for her to try before you get there, and then you can go through the store as well. They will LOVE to do it, and you will have better results than you would at Nordstrom, Stitch Fix, etc. when at a teen store. Unfortunately there isn't an Altar'd State at Tysons at the moment, but there are plenty of places that would do.

This is a great idea - do this at Altar'd State, Abercrombie, Aerie and she'll find a good look.

[Anonymous]

You all really can't figure out your own style? OMG.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve only heard of stylists for celebrities.

I’ve used a few different low budget ones. I’m the opposite of a celebrity or OP’s daughter. I’m a middle age mom who’s not into style and doesn’t like to shop. There are stylists at several department stores and a variety online. Stitch Fix could be considered one, although it’s a generic computer.

To OP- no, your daughter doesn’t need this. Someone will rip you off and take your money. Let her be, she will find her style with friends at the mall at some point. You might think it looks awful. I don’t like the choices my 14 yo makes but she looks similar to her friends in her clothing choices. She made a lot of clothing changes between 7th and 8th grade.

Hate to say this, but at this point AI is better than some lady at Nordstrom. Stitch fix is geared at old(er) women though -- not going to work for a teen.

I used to work at Altar'd State; if you had come in to our store, preferably not on a weekend when we were crazy busy, we could have helped out a lot. If you can find a store she is inclined to like, call, ask to talk to the manager to set up an appointment to come in and get some help. They can even talk to her and pull things for her to try before you get there, and then you can go through the store as well. They will LOVE to do it, and you will have better results than you would at Nordstrom, Stitch Fix, etc. when at a teen store. Unfortunately there isn't an Altar'd State at Tysons at the moment, but there are plenty of places that would do.

This. People usually work in clothing stores because they love fashion. Find a time when it's not busy and have the people who work at the store help her pick things out and try things on. I had this problem when I moved up to a position at work that required nicer clothes. I was like your daughter and would end up either buying nothing and feeling like I wasted time or buying something I ended up not liking and never wearing. I went to the mall and would pick up a piece or two from the sales rack and ask the staff to help me make a few outfits. They were always super helpful and nice and it was a great experience. I think they enjoyed doing something more than just folding clothes and ringing things up.