Coming over unannounced

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm so confused. He wants you to show up unannounced with your sexy self on his doorstep with a home cooked meal? Girl you can do so much better. How about he shows up with roses and with a reservation to the Ritz Carlton. Don't fall for this BS. How is this even a question. Block this loser. I would rather be alone.

That’s why you are alone. Lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What are your thoughts on coming over unannounced when dating for a short amount of time? A male friend tried to convince me that the reason I’m having a hard time getting into a committed relationship is because I’m not aggressive enough, and I need to do bold acts like this. I find the idea of showing up unannounced a turn off and violation of boundaries. He says no man will turn down a beautiful woman on his doorstep who shows up with food and a desire for sex. Please chime in.

If your intended beloved is sick or facing some work or family related stress, it would be nice to go to his place with care package or food or invite him to your place to pamper but even though it's spontaneous and unplanned, text and check if they are indeed available.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What are your thoughts on coming over unannounced when dating for a short amount of time? A male friend tried to convince me that the reason I’m having a hard time getting into a committed relationship is because I’m not aggressive enough, and I need to do bold acts like this. I find the idea of showing up unannounced a turn off and violation of boundaries. He says no man will turn down a beautiful woman on his doorstep who shows up with food and a desire for sex. Please chime in.

That’s bad advice, especially if dating only for a short time.
No real man would like it.

If she’s trying to surprise him to check if he’s dating other women, fine and good for her. But if she thinks it’s some kind of move that would make the guy be more attracted to her, she’s totally wrong.

[Anonymous]

Big no. We just don’t do that anymore. Everyone calls or texts first

[Anonymous]

In the 50’s/60’s this was more acceptable.

People would spend entire days visiting w/friends.

These days?
Not so much.
People use the excuse that they are simply busier…..🤷🏻

But if a woman showed up unannounced w/food, wanting to have sex most men would forgive her……

[Anonymous]

Ok so I don’t even answer the door if I’m not expecting someone, so this wouldn’t work for me lol.

I’ll also add, that doesn’t sound like the way to a committed relationship. Bang buddy? Sounds great! Actually dating and getting to know someone and potential marriage material? Nah no way.