Do you ever fantasize about living completely alone?

[Anonymous]

I live it. It's everything you think it would be.

My kids are grown, I loved being married and raising them but I gotta say, this is way more fun for me. I highly recommend it!

I have a great 2/2 condo, in the one place I always wanted to live (he certainly didn't) and I do whatever I want whenever I want all the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I live it. It's everything you think it would be.

My kids are grown, I loved being married and raising them but I gotta say, this is way more fun for me. I highly recommend it!

I have a great 2/2 condo, in the one place I always wanted to live (he certainly didn't) and I do whatever I want whenever I want all the time.

11:59 pp who is living the dream, and I think you and I might be twinsies! I, too, live in a 2/2 condo/townhouse, and find the setup to be the best thing since sliced bread.

[Anonymous]

I constantly think about this. I would love to rent a room for a month and leave them all. I have a husband who makes most of the mess and has a million and one excuses as to why he can't help. I think when the kids move out, I will move out too.

[Anonymous]

Yes I dream of having a 2-bedroom apartment above a Whole Foods grocery.

[Anonymous]

When I was in the thick of little kid raising, I used to fantasize that prison wouldn't be that bad.... So yeah, this would have been something I'd fantasize about!!

[Anonymous]

Newly divorced with elementary/ middle school kids. I do miss the kids when they aren’t here, but there are maybe 3-4 days every month where I wouldn’t see them at all — every other day I either have them or see them at least a little bit. The time I do have off is golden. I kept the house and am redoing it how I like it. It’s so peaceful and nice.

I thought the divorce would be a nightmare, but I am living every mom’s dream.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I often fantasize about being a widow

And your DH fantasizes about being a widower.

You are lovely match and great role models for your kids.

You are trolling an anon on an anon board, thinking you're insulting them.

This is a story about you, and you're not the hero/ine you think you are.

[Anonymous]

I did that in my mid 20s. It got lonely at times. And I am an extreme introvert. The most I wish for these days is a week away.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I often fantasize about being a widow

I am a widow. It’s very lonely.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Newly divorced with elementary/ middle school kids. I do miss the kids when they aren’t here, but there are maybe 3-4 days every month where I wouldn’t see them at all — every other day I either have them or see them at least a little bit. The time I do have off is golden. I kept the house and am redoing it how I like it. It’s so peaceful and nice.

I thought the divorce would be a nightmare, but I am living every mom’s dream.

Ngl, having a few child-free days per month would be amazing for my health, home projects, self care, etc. My divorced friends with good coparenting relationships lead much more balanced lives because they have more time to focus on themselves, work, etc.

-Parent of 2 kids

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I live it. It's everything you think it would be.

My kids are grown, I loved being married and raising them but I gotta say, this is way more fun for me. I highly recommend it!

I have a great 2/2 condo, in the one place I always wanted to live (he certainly didn't) and I do whatever I want whenever I want all the time.

11:59 pp who is living the dream, and I think you and I might be twinsies! I, too, live in a 2/2 condo/townhouse, and find the setup to be the best thing since sliced bread.

Sometimes I wonder how I got so fortunate to be living my exact life fantasy, but I also know I made it happen, I worked many years to get to this place. It's the most incredible life though isn't it? I have plenty of love and friendship in my life, I do exactly which social things I like and feel like doing, I sleep when I want, get up when I want, travel if I want, stay home a lot, read, watch whatever I want on TV, read a lot of books, listen to a lot of music, and I am never bored or lonely. If I crave company I find some. If I want to talk to someone I text or call. I could go on and on, but you absolutely know what I mean!

[Anonymous]

I do live alone. Most of the time it's great - I never have to compromise, clean up other people's messes, justify anything I do, do anything on anyone else's timetable, etc.

But a few months ago I was staying at a relative's house and she made breakfast for everyone. She cooked the eggs exactly how I cook mine, but hers tasted better. And I realized they tasted better because I hadn't had to make them. Sometimes I have to hire someone to do something I either am not strong enough to do, or can't do alone. I've gotten bruises and pulled muscles from not realizing how difficult something would be on my own. Other than these things, living alone is mostly great. I'm hardly ever lonely - maybe 2-3 times a year at most.

[Anonymous]

Yes but on the property I will also have a big ceramics studio that I will let strong backed young artists use for free. It will have huge windows into the woods or out across a field.

[Anonymous]

I’m divorced and I have 50-50 custody. It has saved my mental health. I was spiraling in my marriage with people around all the time depending on me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My kid has adhd and a lot of guidance is needed for every day tasks - it would be quicker for me to just do it myself but I’m trying to turn her into a capable and responsible human. I’m tired of all the decision making and making everything come together in a functional way.

Same here. My adhd kid is the oldest. We had them cooking once a week starting during the pandemic but they have never stopped asking 1,000 questions while making a meal. What pan? How much water? How hot? Not sure if they want to appear incompetent or what.



At least they get their own breakfast.