What's the longest you've gone without sex?

[Anonymous]

11 years in an abusive marriage

[Anonymous]

Probably 6 months while I was getting a divorce. After that I met someone I had LOT of chemistry with and realy made up for lost time.

I’ve been remarried over 20 years now and the longest stretch was right after my son was born although she was taking care of me in other ways.

Outside of our kid being born (18 years ago) it rarely goes longer than a week. I had surgery a few weeks ago and after about a week, she was like “so are you f’ng me before lunch or after”. We’re pretty basic, like I haven’t had a bj in 10 years at least but I’m thankful for what we have - especially after reading dcum.

[Anonymous]

22 years. And then six months during deployment.

[Anonymous]

I was in what was classified as a sexless marriage, were we would have sex maybe once a year for 8 years

[Anonymous]

About 10 years in a very loving marriage - my husband has health issues and here we are.

[Anonymous]

11 years while married. No longer married, so that number is only going up.

[Anonymous]

Let's see... in between marriages was about 8 years.

Sometimes I look back at the opportunities that I passed up because I was "keeping it for marriage."

Now I'm in another dead bedroom marriage and it's been 10 months and counting and we do it about once a year.

[Anonymous]

Maybe 4 months since I started at 16.

[Anonymous]

Married and I've lost track. Three years? Five years?

[Anonymous]

A couple of months after DW just had a baby.

[Anonymous]

7 years. I was married and in my 30s. Woman here.

[Anonymous]

8 years and 4 months. And counting.
Married.

[Anonymous]

4-5 months sometimes. Married. Happily at that. We are just busy and don't worry about it too much.

[Anonymous]

19 years, thank goodness I had an active sex life before being married. Before this I was married to an over zealous husband so at first, the break was great.

[Anonymous]

Since losing my virginity, 6 months or so.

In my marriage, outside of pregnancy and postpartum - which frankly didn’t slow things down much because I still prioritized it - a couple of weeks? But typically at least 1-2x a week. My DH has a VERY high libido so mostly it’s to keep him happy, but I enjoy it to an extent. If I only had sex when I really wanted to it would be sporadic - maybe a couple of times a month.