What's the longest you've gone without sex?

[Anonymous]

11 years while married. No longer married, so that number is only going up.

[Anonymous]

Let's see... in between marriages was about 8 years.

Sometimes I look back at the opportunities that I passed up because I was "keeping it for marriage."

Now I'm in another dead bedroom marriage and it's been 10 months and counting and we do it about once a year.

[Anonymous]

Maybe 4 months since I started at 16.

[Anonymous]

Married and I've lost track. Three years? Five years?

[Anonymous]

A couple of months after DW just had a baby.

[Anonymous]

7 years. I was married and in my 30s. Woman here.

[Anonymous]

8 years and 4 months. And counting.
Married.

[Anonymous]

4-5 months sometimes. Married. Happily at that. We are just busy and don't worry about it too much.

[Anonymous]

19 years, thank goodness I had an active sex life before being married. Before this I was married to an over zealous husband so at first, the break was great.

[Anonymous]

Since losing my virginity, 6 months or so.

In my marriage, outside of pregnancy and postpartum - which frankly didn’t slow things down much because I still prioritized it - a couple of weeks? But typically at least 1-2x a week. My DH has a VERY high libido so mostly it’s to keep him happy, but I enjoy it to an extent. If I only had sex when I really wanted to it would be sporadic - maybe a couple of times a month.

[Anonymous]

Widowed, many years now.

[Anonymous]

Six months or so? Between relationships or after birth of kids.

I am high drive, love sex and am adventurous but was just super not into it while breastfeeding. DH was a saint in terms of patience.

[Anonymous]

Excluding pre and post having a baby maybe three weeks at most. We’ve been married 38 years and we still have sex once a week. This morning we discussed having a date tonight and that helps me get in the mood. Thankfully we are both healthy and in good shape so the sex is still very enthusiastic!

[Anonymous]

3-5 months. Married. DW suffers from some sort of undiagnosed sleep disorder. She is always exhausted. And no amount of scheduling anything works. Then every few months I thread the needle to find an even f when the stars align. I think her anti anxiety meds mess with her libido too.